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Confessions of faith: Moseley

A coupleĀ travelsĀ down different paths to discover the truth: Salvation is Godā€™s gift to us through his Son.Ā 

Julie K.Ā WietzkeĀ 

David and Meredith Moseley came from different ends of the religious spectrumā€”she from a strict Roman Catholic upbringing and he fromĀ theĀ charismatic AssembliesĀ of God. She grew up with the rosary, praying to the saints, and being ā€œall about Mary.ā€ His church emphasized the gifts of the Spirit, the laying on of hands, millennialism, and speaking in tongues.Ā 

BothĀ denominationsĀ lacked the distinctly Lutheran message: Scripture alone, grace alone, faith alone, in Christ alone.Ā 

ā€œAlthough [our religious upbringings] might be different on the outside, in the end itā€™s the same bag of tricks,ā€ says Meredith. ā€œItā€™s all in the end a works-based religion.ā€Ā 

David and Meredith traveled down different paths to discover the truth: Salvation is Godā€™s gift to us through his Son.Ā 

Meredithā€™sĀ journeyĀ to Lutheranism didnā€™t start until she went to college.Ā She grew up in a devout Catholic family, attended Catholic high school, and served as a cantor for the weekly mass at church.Ā Ā 

It wasnā€™t until she met a friendĀ at UWā€“La CrosseĀ that she steppedĀ back to look at what she reallyĀ believed. ā€œMy friend was an evangelical, born-again believer type and she was really outspoken about her faith,ā€ says Meredith. ā€œIt made me think about myself and where I was in my beliefs.ā€Ā 

She says her friend encouraged her to read the Bibleā€”something sheĀ hadnā€™t doneĀ much in the past. So Meredith started casually reading the Bible, and the Holy Spirit begin his work.Ā Ā 

After finding a book about the virgin Mary at home and reading it, Meredith began questioning her upbringing even more. ā€œThe book was saying the secret to heaven is to become a slave of Mary,ā€ she says. ā€œI had the weirdest feelingĀ thatĀ this isnā€™t right; this isnā€™t what the Bible is telling me.ā€Ā Ā 

This became a turning point for her. ā€œI realized I always just acceptedĀ what the Catholic church saidĀ as true, but if theyā€™re accepting these teachings that arenā€™t right, it had me questioning everything they teach,ā€ she says.Ā Ā 

She began visiting other churchesĀ andĀ more regularly attendingĀ anĀ EvangelicalĀ Free church, although she wasnā€™t always comfortable with the more contemporary worship. A WELS friend invited her to his church,Ā and she decided to take the Bible information class to learn more about Lutheranism. ā€œIt was a good representation of what the Bible teaches,ā€Ā she says.Ā Being a musician, she also appreciatedĀ the historical liturgy andĀ reading the music directly from the hymnal.Ā She joined Immanuel, La Crosse, Wis., in 2009.Ā 

Now came the hard partā€”telling her parents.Ā She wrote them a letter and gave it to them when she was home for Christmas vacation.Ā ā€œI put all the Scripture verses and reasons why I chose not to be Catholic anymore,ā€ she says. ā€œI felt likeĀ [my parents]Ā were put off by the Scriptures; I guess the Word is offensive to people.ā€Ā 

But for Meredith, theĀ Word brought the true meaning of graceā€”not by works, but through faith in her Savior from sin.Ā 

David grew up inĀ anĀ Assembly of God church.Ā The largest Pentecostal denomination in the United States, theĀ Assemblies of GodĀ emphasizeĀ speaking in tongues, the laying on of hands for healing, millennialism, and the need to accept Jesus as your Savior.Ā 

Being moved by the Spirit was common in worship services David attendedĀ in Tomah, Wis.,Ā while growing up. He says often someone spoke in tongues during worship and people were ā€œslain by the Spirit,ā€ in which they would fall to the ground after the laying on of hands for healing. ā€œThe whole emphasis on worship is to let the Spirit move so the emotions of people were affected,ā€ he says.Ā DavidĀ saysĀ he was zealous for the faith as a teen, even being part of the worship team.Ā Ā 

But the congregation had internal problems,Ā and his father, a former Lutheran,Ā began to question the charismatic gifts emphasized at the church.Ā Ā 

The Lord also placed other influences in Davidā€™s religious life. His dadā€™s parents were WELS, and his grandmother introduced him to a WELS pastorā€™s wife who gave him piano lessons. This gave David a chance to know someone who was Lutheran besides his grandparents. ā€œShe was very vocal about her faith,ā€ he says.Ā 

David joined the army in 2006 and before leaving for basic training, he decided he wanted to attendĀ a service at St. Paul, Tomah,Ā with his grandma and grandpa. ā€œI was getting curious,ā€ he says. He attended a Christmas Eve candlelight service when heĀ returned after basic trainingĀ and Ash Wednesday church whenĀ he wasĀ back on leave.Ā Ā 

Then,Ā while serving at Fort Eustis in Virginia,Ā getting to anĀ Assembly of God churchĀ for church was difficult,Ā soĀ heĀ began attending the chapel at the fort. ā€œI discovered you donā€™t have to be Assembly of God,ā€ he says. ā€œThere were wonderful believers here at the chapel.ā€ He also began listening to a confessional online Lutheran Churchā€“Missouri Synod radio program, which helped him understand how Lutherans viewed the sacraments. ā€œIt took care of a lot of issues for me because it pointed me back to Scripture,ā€ he says.Ā He began reading and learning more.Ā 

When David returned to TomahĀ in 2010Ā after he completed his active duty, he started visiting St. Paul more regularly. But he also still kept attending the Assembly of God churchā€”partly because his parents were still members and he was living at home and partly because ā€œI was not ready to say that it was heretical,ā€Ā he says.Ā 

In 2011 he met his wife, Meredith, who then was a member at another WELS church in town. She and David began attending St. Paulā€™s together and she decided to become a member there. They got engaged, and David started taking Bible information class.Ā Ā 

The class further clarified his understanding of the Lutheran faith, including theĀ definitionsĀ ofĀ words likeĀ faithĀ andĀ grace. ā€œMost American evangelicals view faith as something I drum up in my heart instead of being the gift of the Holy Spirit to us,ā€ David says. ā€œItā€™s aboutĀ havingĀ to look inside me and I can make the decisionā€”I can believe in Jesusā€”vs. itā€™s the Holy Spirit through the Word that causes us to believe.ā€Ā 

In June 2013, David was finally ready to make a complete break from the church of his childhoodĀ and join St. Paul. It wasnā€™t easyā€”David says his mom, though she accepted it, never really got over it.Ā Ā 

David and Meredith continue to be faithful members of St. PaulĀ and participate in the music ministry of the congregation.Ā David also served as a delegate to this summerā€™s synod convention.Ā With raising one daughter and another child on the way, they sayĀ thatĀ sometimesĀ it is difficult not to have a close family heritage with theĀ confessionalĀ Lutheran churchĀ and its teachings. But, according to Meredith, their broader understanding of what other denominationsĀ teachĀ helps them appreciate the distinct LutheranĀ truths of Scripture alone, grace alone, faith alone, in Christ aloneĀ all the more.Ā 

Says David, ā€œWe have our salvationā€”itā€™s all Godā€™s gift to us. . . . Just go back to the Word of Godā€”thatā€™s all you need.ā€Ā Ā 


JulieĀ WietzkeĀ is managing editor ofĀ Forward in ChristĀ magazine.Ā 


 

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Author: Julie K. Wietzke
Volume 104, Number 11
Issue: November 2017

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Salt of the earth: Part 6

The poor and needy are opportunities to help and be hospitable.Ā 

John HuebnerĀ 

ā€œI thought he was going to kidnap me!ā€Ā said my 11-year old grandson after I had given a few dollars to the man in the Home Depot parking lot, asking for rent help.Ā Ā 

Iā€™ve read the articles about enabling addicts and homeless people and teaching a person to fish versus giving him a fish.Ā And I, probably just like you, try to avert my eyes when Iā€™m at the stoplight with someone two feet away from my car window with a hand-printed cardboard sign asking for moneyā€”the sign that often also says,Ā ā€œGod bless you.ā€Ā Ā 

But Jesus says I should help needy people.Ā Who and how are questions for which each of us needs to find answers.Ā 

Who?Ā 

In the sameĀ Sermon on the MountĀ in which Jesus taught the large crowd about beingĀ ā€œthe salt of the earthā€Ā (Matthew 5:13), he also said,Ā ā€œBut when you give to the needy, do not let your left hand know what your right hand is doing, so that your giving may be in secretā€Ā (6:3,4). You noticeĀ that heĀ expectsĀ Godā€™s people to give to the needy. He didnā€™t sayĀ ā€œif.ā€Ā He didnā€™t break the needy down into classesā€”ā€œa bit needy,ā€Ā ā€œa lot needy,ā€Ā orĀ ā€œmost needy.ā€Ā He just said,Ā ā€œNeedy.ā€Ā 

St. Paul explains that this is especially true when Godā€™s salty people show loving concern toward one another:Ā ā€œShare with the Lordā€™s people who are in need.Ā Practice hospitalityā€Ā (Romans 12:13).Ā Practicing hospitality literally meansĀ ā€œstriving or aspiring to be one who loves the stranger as a friend.ā€Ā It has something to do with providing a welcoming, safe place, as Abraham andĀ Sarah did for three strangersĀ when they entertainedĀ angels and the Lord without knowing itĀ (Genesis chapter 18).Ā We understand that helping fellow Christians is not optional.Ā Ā 

Katie Luther and her husband,Ā Martin,Ā who had six children of their own, also accommodated nieces, nephews, tutors, monks, nuns, indigent pastors, students, and others at their home.Ā They even took in a fugitive pastor on their wedding nightĀ and sick people during the plague!Ā Their homeĀ was definitely a hospitable place.Ā 

In hisĀ Treatise on Good WorksĀ (Lutherā€™s Works,Ā Vol.Ā 44, p. 17-114),Ā Luther told the world why Christians care for those in need.Ā ā€œFor because a man trusts God, he isĀ generous and does not doubt that he will always have enough; on the other hand, a man is covetous and worries because he does not trust God.ā€Ā Our trust in God warms our hearts to be hospitable and care for the needy.Ā 

Being hospitable involves our attitude toward those in need.Ā Jesus said,Ā ā€œThe poor you will alwaysĀ have with youā€Ā (Matthew 26:11). Moses said the same thing (Deuteronomy 15:11).Ā Iā€™ve sometimes wondered why the street corner beggar isnā€™t working at McDonaldā€™s or why the Section 8 housing occupant doesnā€™t take better care of the place they are being provided.Ā But Jesus never addressed the social/economic reasons behind poverty.Ā He simply said to help.Ā Ā 

How?Ā 

We want to exercise good judgment. We feed a starving person food for the body but alsoĀ provideĀ Godā€™s food for the soulā€”without being or appearing manipulative.Ā Ā 

Good judgment also requires caution.Ā We canā€™t, nor should we, give to every person, charity,Ā or cause that comes along.Ā Our own WELS Christian Aid and Relief is charged with the dual role of providing disaster relief and building bridges to the gospel through long-Ā and short-term humanitarian aid projects.Ā This is the best place to start when sharing our wealth outside of our local area.Ā Ā 

The early Christians knew the value and dignity of work, but it appears they didnā€™t ask the poor why they were poor.Ā Rather, they sold their ownĀ thingsĀ so they could give to anyone who was in need.Ā And they did more than send a check to a charity or drop a dollar in a hat. They invited fellow believers into their homes andĀ ā€œate together with glad and sincere hearts, praising God and enjoying the favor of all the peopleā€Ā (ActsĀ 2:46,47).Ā Ā 

NoticeĀ how hospitable they were!Ā They realized the importance of getting into relationshipsĀ with one another, rich or poor, so they could joyfully share the gospel withĀ one another.Ā Iā€™m guessing you have also discovered that personal faith conversations seem to go deeper with someone you have come to know than with a stranger whose motives and integrity you donā€™t yet know.Ā Ā 

Not long ago, some of us from our church were asked to help a single mother whose older home badly needed a new roof.Ā As we spoke with one another, realizing the importance of our work together to repair and replace that roof,Ā Jesus was in those conversations and blessed them. Acquaintances in Christ became friends in Christ.Ā 

As a congregation, we continue to work at being hospitable and creating a welcome environment for all who enter our doors.Ā There is food and coffee to gather around.Ā Weā€™ve been trained to look for the guest and help them experience Christā€™s love.Ā WeĀ have a very special man in our congregation who recently brought a friend to church and then invited him and about 25 of us to a restaurant after worship so that we could get to know him better.Ā A number of members provide $25 gift cards to various grocery stores and gas stations so that our pastor, at his discretion, might help some who request aid.Ā 

My wife works hard at creating a hospitable home.Ā We still laugh when we rememberĀ the time some seminary students called us one evening on spring break because the house they had thought was available turned out to be occupied and they needed a placeĀ to stay.Ā They ended up camping in our backyard,Ā andĀ my wifeĀ made sure there were towels, food, and showers available for them.Ā We are blessed to have some of our grandchildren near us,Ā andĀ my wifeĀ has turned our home into a haven for them, complete with devotions when they stay over.Ā Countless missionaries and WELS school choirĀ members have found shelter here as well.Ā 

It was Jesus who showed us what perfect hospitality is and looks like.Ā He left the place of perfect peace in order to provide eternal peace for us.Ā As we observe him on the pages of Scripture, we see him giving his time and attention to little children, grieving widows, the sick, the poor, andĀ those disabled.Ā Anyone could come to him for help.Ā He personally fed two crowds of thousands.Ā He had no home while ministering on this earth but has made it possible for the entire world to have a heavenly home forever!Ā 

By the grace of God, we believe in him and long to see him.Ā While we are waiting, there is a growing desire in our hearts to be hospitable to the hungry, the thirsty, the stranger, and all others in need.Ā Itā€™s notĀ because weā€™re goingĀ to earn a place in heavenā€”Jesus hasĀ already provided that precious gift.Ā Rather, we just want to hearĀ JesusĀ say those wonderful words,Ā ā€œWhatever you did for one of the least of these brothersĀ and sistersĀ of mine, you did for meā€Ā (Matthew 25:40).Ā 


John Huebner, a retired pastor, is a member at Victory, Jacksonville, Florida.Ā 


This is the sixth article in a 12-part series about Christian love in action and how we can be salt in this world.


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Author: John P. Huebner
Volume 104, Number 11
Issue: November 2017

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Hurricanes offer opportunity to show Christian love

WithĀ threeĀ major hurricanes affecting the United States this summer, there were many opportunities for WELS members to show Christian love and serviceĀ to the affected congregationsĀ and their communities.Ā WELS Christian Aid and Relief has distributed more thanĀ $100,000 in relief aid so farĀ toĀ those affected by Hurricanes Harvey, Irma, and Maria.Ā Ā 

In addition, several groups already have traveled to the affected areas to show Christian love by helping with immediate cleanup.Ā 


FloridaĀ 

Five men from Salem, Stillwater, Minn.,Ā broughtĀ a Christian Aid and Relief trailerĀ outfitted with tools and supplies for relief work,Ā toĀ West Melbourne, Fla.,Ā in late September, to helpĀ members ofĀ New Hope, West Melbourne, and Redeemer, Merritt Island,Ā with cleanup following Hurricane Irma.Ā Ā 

It was a homecoming for Jeff Ross, who was stationed in Florida for his military service. ā€œI gotĀ laidĀ off from my job, which was not a bad thing, so, I had a little time on my hands,ā€ he says. ā€œGod just gave me this opportunity to come down here and help some Floridians out. I know what itā€™s like to go through a hurricane. So itā€™s great to get back and help.ā€Ā 

The groupĀ tookĀ down trees and cleanedĀ up debris atĀ aboutĀ 25Ā homesā€”both ofĀ WELSĀ members and also nonmembers in the community. New Hope Christian Academy school childrenĀ alsoĀ helped with cleanup as well as distributed fliersĀ that sharedĀ information about the congregations.Ā Ā 

ā€œItā€™s a great opportunity to live our faith but also to share our faith through our actions and through the conversations we are able to have,ā€ saysĀ TedĀ Petersen, a member of New Hope who helped coordinate the local relief efforts.Ā Ā 

With many retirees in the congregations who find it difficult to do the physical labor, Petersen says it was wonderful to have volunteers come and work on the churchā€™s behalf. ā€œHurricanes are brutal things. . . . Just to see people come down who say, ā€œWeā€™re going to help you out. We care about you and what youā€™ve been through and weā€™re going to do what we can to get you back on your feetā€ā€”that means a lot to us,ā€ he says.Ā 

It also is rewarding for the volunteers. Bob Wells, one of the volunteers from Minnesota, says, ā€œItā€™s been nice to go together and work as a group, to know that the congregation and the synod are here to help. And [to see] the people just crying tears of joy after we showed up and got the work done.ā€Ā Ā 


TexasĀ 

About 50Ā WELS members from the greater Austin,Ā Dallas/Fort Worth, and HoustonĀ area traveled to Edna and Victoria, Tex., in early September to offer support and relief to those communities that were affected by Hurricane Harvey.Ā 

These volunteers partnered with members of Redeemer, a multi-site ministry with worship in both Edna and Victoria, to address the critical needs of the congregationā€™s members, their friends and family, and also the community. ā€œWe hit roughly 60 families, doing work anywhere from tarping roofs to cutting down trees to cleaning up yards,ā€ says Andrew Schroer, pastor at Redeemer, Edna.Ā Ā 

AaronĀ Glaeske, pastor at Redeemer, Victoria, had only arrived in Victoria a couple of months before the hurricane. He just recently started worship services at the Victoria site andĀ isĀ preparing for a grand opening on Dec. 3.Ā ā€œOur dearĀ Lord gave us an opportunity with Harvey to introduce ourselves to the community in a different way,ā€ he says. ā€œEvery opportunity you have to reach into the community to show that youā€™re interested in themā€”not just to get people into pews but because youā€™re really interested in them as peopleā€”that speaks volumes about the kind of love that Jesus has shown us.ā€Ā 


Christian Aid and Relief is still evaluating long-term recovery needs, especially in Houston, Tex., which had massive flooding afterĀ some areas received more than 50Ā inches of rain, and Puerto Rico, which was devastated by Hurricane Maria.Ā Watch for updates atĀ wels.net/hurricanerelief.Ā 


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Your will be done on earth as in heaven

John A. Braun

Our heavenly Fatherā€™s will does not change. He is not willing that any should perish, but he wants everyone to come to repentance (2 Peter 3:9).Ā He has a special concern for his believers. He always works everything out for the good ofĀ theĀ people he has called to faith in JesusĀ (Romans 8:28).Ā 

In heaven, Godā€™s will is done without opposition and without question.Ā That means what he decides is accomplished,Ā andĀ the entire host ofĀ the angels and saints in heaven rejoice and praise him freely and without complaint.Ā 

Those in heavenĀ know that God wants nothing but the best for his people.Ā The believersĀ thereĀ seeĀ thatĀ he has brought them safelyĀ through their struggles on earth.Ā The angels witnessed Godā€™s justice and love in expelling the rebel angels and confirming those who remained faithful.Ā In heaven all is well; Godā€™s will is unchallenged and perfect.Ā 

But on earth, the devil prowls among the living,Ā seeking to devour souls (1 Peter 5:8).Ā He has been at his tasks for a long timeā€”ever since he was expelled from heaven.Ā He knows how to thwart Godā€™s will, how to pervert his Word, and how to distract the living with every imaginable temptation.Ā The believers in heaven are safe, but the living on earth are still under attack.Ā And itā€™s not just the devilĀ thatĀ Godā€™s people must contend with here on earth.Ā The world and our sinful flesh alsoĀ haveĀ become our enemies.Ā Ā 

The church on earth often seems to be singled out for special attention from the devil.Ā If he can rob the church of the gospel, so many souls will go into eternity without the grace of God.Ā If he canĀ useĀ the world to intimidate the churchĀ or in other ways lead the church to proclaim false teaching,Ā he also achieves his goal.Ā It should not surprise us that Jesus asks us to pray that our heavenly Fatherā€™s will be done on earth as in heaven.Ā 

ButĀ Jesus not onlyĀ gave us this prayer;Ā heĀ alsoĀ prayed,Ā ā€œNot my will,Ā but yours be doneā€ in the GardenĀ of Gethsemane (Luke 22:42).Ā With that prayer on his lips,Ā he shows us how to faceĀ the anguish and turmoilĀ on earth.Ā In his challenges, he wantedĀ theĀ assurance that his Fatherā€™s will would be done. He willinglyĀ submittedĀ toĀ theĀ willĀ ofĀ his heavenly Father.Ā 

So we have a clear lesson from Jesus.Ā Our heavenly Fatherā€™s willĀ is sure and certain.Ā But we doubt and often are confused by what we face. When life doesnā€™t make sense to us,Ā we wonder.Ā When death and pain afflict us, our loved ones, and other Christians here, how is Godā€™s will done?Ā When persecution and disaster strike, we are confused about how this is Godā€™s good and gracious will to protect his own and bring them homeĀ to heaven.Ā When, like Jesus, we face difficult days or the church faces serious challenges, decisions,Ā or hardship, we crave the assurance that our heavenly Fatherā€™s will be done.Ā 

It is atĀ such times that we should pray, ā€œYour will be done on earth as in heaven.ā€Ā We donā€™tĀ alwaysĀ understandĀ Godā€™s willĀ while we are here on earth.Ā We are tempted to abandon God when heĀ allowsĀ so much trouble on earth.Ā But God always knows what he is doing, even if we donā€™t know and wonder why.Ā We are still in hisĀ hands and under his loving care. And in heaven, when we join the saints and angels,Ā we will not wonder.Ā Ā 

But for now on earth,Ā we pray, ā€œYour will be done.ā€Ā 


John Braun is executive editor of the Forward in Christ magazine.


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Author: John A. Braun
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Thank God!

Noah was grateful for so many blessings so he gave thanks.Ā We also give thanks for all Godā€™s gifts.Ā 

Stephen G. HelwigĀ 

ā€œThank God!ā€Ā Ā 

Do you think Noah uttered those words when he finally walked off the ark and stepped foot on dry ground?Ā Ā 

Put yourself in his shoes. Confinedā€”lockedā€”in the ark for over a year! We talk about being cooped up in our heated homes for three months during the winter with refrigerators, stoves, TVs, beds, and showers. For Noah,Ā a look outside was difficultā€”he had no glass windows. And inside the ark,Ā it was dark,Ā damp, andĀ musty. And what did NoahĀ hear?Ā The pelting of the rain on the roof, the pounding of the waves against the walls, the thumping of the water below.Ā And donā€™t forget the animals! The smell, the noise, the workā€”feeding them, cleaning up after them, day after day.Ā 

Could we live for an entire year confined to an area of 450 feet by 75 feet?Ā And what about family? People on edge? People getting on each otherā€™s nerves?Ā What about conversation? After day 225, honestly, whatĀ did theyĀ find to talk about? And what about food? What did they eat? The same food day after day? This was anything but a luxury cruise.Ā Ā 

Noahā€™s altarĀ 

After a year of confinementā€”perhaps a year of battling claustrophobia and even a bit of depressionā€”Noah sent out the raven and he waited; then he sent out the dove and he waited; then he sent out the dove again and he waited. He waited patiently for the Lord to open the door of the ark. WhenĀ GodĀ finally did, do you think Noah let out a good, old-fashioned, ā€œThank Godā€?Ā 

We know he did. But hisĀ ā€œThank God!ā€Ā was not a sarcastic exclamation or a sigh of relief but, rather,Ā it was saidĀ in grateful devotion.Ā He uttered that thank youĀ in stone, wood, and fire. Noah built an altar,Ā took some of those clean animals that he had been keeping alive on the ark for the past year,Ā and sacrificed them to Godā€”a grateful expression of thanks.Ā 

Why? Because, quite simply, God had placed him on that ark! And God had personally seen to it that his ark had not been ripped apart by pounding water and crashing waves.Ā In short, Noah could thank God that he was alive.Ā 

But it was more than thatā€”so much more than that! Noah built the ark because of his faith in Godā€™s promises. God had brought him to faith in a coming Savior. God had blessed him with a righteousness that was not his own. God had forgiven him his sins. God had saved him from something far more destructive and far more threatening than a worldwideĀ floodā€”God had saved him from eternal damnation in hell.Ā Ā Ā 

Godā€™s altarĀ 

Life may not always be what we want it to be. We may not always get what we want. Confined inside a dark, smelly boat for a year?Ā Itā€™s hard to find the blessing in that unless we consider the alternative. And yet, Noah and his family had all they needed. As we look back in our own lives, we know that God has given us more than we need. And, yes, sometimes it takes hard times to help us see and appreciate those blessings. Sometimes it takes having less than what weā€™re used to so that we can appreciate just how much we do have.Ā Ā 

What do you have?Ā Godā€™s protection?Ā YouĀ are in the palm of his hand! He commands his angels to guard you! Godā€™s provision?Ā Clothing and shoes, food and drink, house and home; family and friends. Godā€™s grace?Ā A living faith in a living Savior in whom you are righteous and through whom you are forgiven; a living faith that is fed by the living water that wells up to eternal life.Ā Ā 

Noah was grateful for even more.Ā Yes, he was grateful for what God had done for him in the past butĀ alsoĀ because he trusted what God would do for him in the future. What would God do? Noah didnā€™t have to be afraid to step out of that ark and wonder if a tidal wave was going to smack him in the face and wash him away. Noah didnā€™t have to live each day in fear wondering if he should get to work on another ark. Never again would God destroy the earth with a worldwide flood. Every rainbowĀ NoahĀ saw assured him of that. Noah trusted God when he said, ā€œAs long as the earth endures, seedtime and harvest, cold and heat, summer and winter,Ā day and night will never ceaseā€ (Genesis 8:22).Ā Noah was thankful for his future and the future of the world.Ā 

But thereā€™s still more! Noah trusted that, even though every inclination of the human heart is evil from childhood, God would still send the Seed of the woman to crush the serpentā€™s head. In fact, for that very reasonā€”because every inclination of the human heart is evil from childhoodā€”God would keepĀ thisĀ promise. That was the very purpose of the ark! Yes, God had protected Noah and his family, but God had also protectedā€”and preservedā€”his promise to send the Seed of the woman in spite of human sin and depravity. The time would fully come. And then, on an altar not of stone but on the altar of the cross,Ā Jesus would offer himselfā€”the Lamb with blemish or defectā€”as the perfect sacrifice for sin. Rushing flood waters could never wash sin off the face of the earth; Noah and his family still carried sin within. God knew that. But the rush of blood and water from the side of his Son could. The blood of a crucified and risen Jesus purifies us from all unrighteousness.Ā 

What altar will you build?Ā 

And so, we trust. We trust what GodĀ will do for us in the futureā€”exactly what he said he would do. He will continue to provide for us. Seedtime and harvest, cold and heat, summer and winter, day and night will not cease. He will continue to take care of usā€”good care of us. But he will also, through his Word and sacrament, keep us inĀ theĀ faith until he returns to take us home to his Fatherā€™s house.Ā Ā 

In the meantime, dear Christian, what altar can you build? Granted, our altars will not be made out of stone with fire for the sacrifice of animals; our altars will never be set on fire.Ā 

But, in view of Godā€™s mercy, as Paul encouraged the Romans, ā€œOffer your bodies asĀ aĀ living sacrifice,Ā holy and pleasing toĀ Godā€”this is yourĀ true and properĀ worshipā€Ā (12:1).Ā Living sacrifices. Our bodies, our livesā€”living sacrifices, living altarsā€”dedicated to a gracious God; altars built knowing what he has done for us in the past and trusting what he will do for us in the future.Ā Ā 

Thank God!Ā 


Stephen Helwig is pastor at Gethsemane, Omaha, Nebraska.Ā 


 

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Godā€™s love: Our song forever – Part 5

The church isĀ made up ofĀ people from many different backgrounds. Our worship should reflect our unity.Ā 

Jonathan P. BauerĀ 

A man walked into a Targetā„¢Ā store demanding to speak with the manager. He wasnā€™t happy. In his hand, he clutched an ad that had recently arrived at his mailbox. It was full of pictures of smiling babies and included coupons for maternity clothes, cribs, and newborn onesies. ā€œMy daughter got this in the mail!ā€ he said. ā€œSheā€™s still in high school! Are you trying toĀ encourage herĀ to get pregnant?ā€Ā 

The store manager apologized profusely. A few days later, he called the man to apologize again. This time, however, the man owed the manager the apology. ā€œI had a talk with my daughter,ā€ he said. ā€œIt turns out sheā€™s due in August.ā€Ā 

How did Target know that the young girl was pregnant before her dad did? For that matter, why is the ad delivered to your mailbox different from the one delivered to your neighborā€™s? Itā€™s simple. Data from every purchase a person makes at Target is added to his or her customer profile. Age and potential needs are part of the profile Target uses to predict what the customer is most likely to purchase, not just in the present but even in the future.Ā TargetĀ then tailorsĀ itsĀ advertising to that customer accordingly.Ā 

ThisĀ little story is just one of many examples of targeted marketing. Companies donā€™t just advertise to customers in general. They advertise specific things to specific people. When you think about it, it makes perfect sense. Companies donā€™t need every customer to buyĀ the same thing. They just want every customer to buyĀ something.Ā 

Compare your relationship with a big box retailer to your relationship to Christā€™s church. When it comes to the church, you are not the customer of a company. Rather, you are a member of a body (see RomansĀ chapterĀ 12, 1 CorinthiansĀ chapterĀ 12, and EphesiansĀ chapterĀ 4, for example). Christians have an important relationship not only to Christ but also to other Christians. In the church, men and women, young and old, rich and poor,Ā are joined as one.Ā 

Celebrating unity in our worshipĀ 

One of the primary places where this wonderful unity can be seen is in public worship.Ā Christian Worship: ManualĀ puts it this way: ā€œAt public worship believers of all ages, shapes and sizes join to offer GodĀ their mutual response of faithā€Ā (p.Ā 10).Ā 

In the church in Corinth we find a New Testament example of public worship dividing the body of Christ rather than uniting it. In response, Paul wrote, ā€œWhen you come together, each of you has a hymn, or a word of instruction, a revelation, a tongue or an interpretation. Everything must be done so that the church may be built upā€ (1 Corinthians 14:26).Ā 

The church is a body. Public worship celebrates that. And yet, consumerism is the air we breathe. As a result, the same kind of targeted marketing practiced by Target can easily drive our decisions about worship. It might sound something like this: ā€œIn order toĀ (insert any number of noble goals), we need more (insert any number of different types of hymns).ā€Ā Ā 

The noble goals being pursued could include: articulation of the truth, preservation of Lutheran heritage, retention of youth, or connection with the lost, The types of hymns we think will help us accomplish those goals could include: new hymns or old hymns;Ā hymns with fresh, upbeat tunes or hymns with sturdy, time-tested tunes;Ā hymns that come out of our primarily western European roots or hymns that come from cultures around the globe;Ā hymns that have distinctly Lutheran origins or hymns from broader Christianity;Ā hymns that are full of doctrine or hymns that are full of emotion.Ā Ā 

The Hymnody Committeeā€™sĀ top priority is to publish hymns that are ā€œcentered in Christā€ and ā€œin harmony with the scriptural faith as confessed in the Lutheran Book of Concordā€ (from the adopted list of criteria for hymns). If the church really is a body of members that span centuries, continents, and cultures, then an appropriate corresponding variety in our hymnody should take care of itself.Ā 

Capitalizing on unity in our missionĀ 

But what about those noble goals mentioned above? One can certainly argue that specific types of hymns can help or hinder a specific facet of our mission as churches. However, none of those noble goals can be accomplished by hymnody alone. Every facet of our mission as Christians takes diligent, ongoing work. A specific type of hymn is not the silver bullet for any of them.Ā 

And so, whatever might be gained by the predominant use of a specific type of hymn in service to a specific goal, we must also consider what stands to be lost. If different demographic groups in the church have a body of hymnody tailored specifically to whatever characteristics define them, we lose the characteristics that define others and we sacrifice the unity that is so important to the body of Christ.Ā 

Unity is one of the things that makes the ChristianĀ church distinct and identifies it to the world as something divine. On the night before he died, Jesus prayed to his FatherĀ that all believers ā€œmay be one as we are oneā€”I in them and you in meā€”so that they may be brought to complete unity. Then the world will know that you sent me and have loved them even as you have loved meā€ (John 17:22, 23).Ā 

A proper approach to variety in our hymnody will assuredly mean that none of us has only a set of hymns that is exactly what suits us best always. Instead, it means that all of us will have something far better.Ā 


Jonathan Bauer, chairman of the Communications Committee of the WELS Hymnal Project, is pastor at Good News, Mt. Horeb, Wisconsin.Ā 


This is the fifth article in a nine-part series on hymns and their use in our churches.Ā 


Respectfully making roomĀ 

Pastor Kurt Eggert, the project director forĀ Christian Worship,Ā wrote:Ā ā€œThe Lutheran church is ecumenical in its selection of hymns and other worship materials. Whatever is scripturally sound and true, poetically and musically worthy, and edifying for the faith of worshipers may be drawn on for use in our hymnal. For this principle, we can thank Luther himself.ā€Ā 

So how much variety is there in our current body of hymnody?Ā Christian WorshipĀ contains 340 hymns from various English sources and 283 translations: German, 208; Latin, 36; Danish, 18; Norwegian, 8; Swedish, 5, Greek, 2; Italian, 2; French, Czech, Bohemian, and Welsh, 1 each. Anyone familiar withĀ Christian Worship: SupplementĀ knows that it intentionally expanded that variety even more.Ā Ā 

How our synodā€™s next hymnal will compare remains to be seen. But the goal of providing a body of hymnody that serves the whole body of Christ remains the same.Ā 


The WELS Hymnal Project wants your feedback as it works on finalizing which of the more than 700 hymns from Christian Worship and Christian Worship: Supplement will be included in the new hymnal. Every month the WELS Hymnal Project will post a selection of hymns online, indicating which hymns are slated to be kept and which are slated to be cut. You can view the monthly list and, if you want, choose up to 10 hymns from the cut list that you would like to see kept in the new hymnal. To review this monthā€™s list of hymns and take part in the process, visit welshymnal.com.


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Issue: November 2017

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Classes offered for chaplaincy program

From police officers to those who are incarcerated, the Chaplain Certification Program is about helping people in special circumstances with special ministry needs. Training is open to all WELS members, both lay members and called workers, with a heart for meeting the spiritual needs of people in circumstances that require particular spiritual care. Specific areas of ministry include those in prison, hospitals,Ā andĀ nursing homes;Ā the military and their families;Ā and public servants such as police officers and firemen and women.Ā 

The Commission on Special Ministries establishedĀ thisĀ program because many healthcare facilities, jails, prisons, and military bases are tightening their requirements for ministry in their facilities, especially if the pastor or layperson wants to reach out to non-members.Ā Ā 

Chaplain Certification ProgramĀ coursesĀ canĀ beĀ taken online through Martin Luther College, New Ulm, Minn. There are four required coursesā€”Communicating Forgiveness, A Scriptural Approach to Addiction Counseling, Your Chaplaincy and EthicalĀ Issues, and Chaplaincy Seminarā€”and four electives with emphases on prison ministry,Ā ministry to the military, and ministry to the aging.Ā 

DiAnnĀ Krigbaum, a retired police officer, was not only served by a chaplain during her time onĀ theĀ police force,Ā butĀ sheĀ alsoĀ got her certification to serve as a chaplain after she retired. She tells her story in the latest issues ofĀ His Hands, the WELS Commission on Special Ministries newsletter.Ā Ā 

When her own family experience a crisisĀ and she didnā€™t know who to call,Ā she found help through a chaplain. She writes:Ā Ā 

ā€œAs the situation escalated,Ā the social worker told me to call 911. I couldnā€™t. I froze. IĀ wasĀ the police! I was supposed to help solve and fix problems. My mind was racing. What would my coworkers and supervisors think of me? The enormous shame and pain from loss and failure left me unable to move.Ā Ā 

ā€œThe collateral damage severely wounded every member of my family. I nearly lost my job. Had God abandoned us?Ā Ā 

ā€œBut God did not forget about me and my family. He appearedĀ ā€˜undercoverā€™Ā in the form of a chaplain. My pastor at the time was also a volunteer police chaplain. He cameĀ to my rescue by repeatedly reminding me that God was not trying to harm me but to give me hope and a future (Jeremiah 29:11-13).Ā Ā 

ā€œBy Godā€™s grace, I survived in my career until age 50, when I retired with a police pension and sufficient means to take care of my family as a single mother.Ā Ā 

ā€œThatā€™s when my pastor asked me to take chaplain courses with him through Martin Luther College. He suggested it would help my faith grow and allow others to learn from my experiences.Ā 

ā€œIn an online forum with other pastors and lay students, I was able to share my experiences as a police officer and spiritually wounded WELS member. This provided healing, learning, spiritual growth, and friendships with many Christian friends and called workers. In 2014 I received my Chaplain Certificate from Martin Luther College.ā€Ā 

Learn more aboutĀ becoming a chaplainĀ atĀ wels.net/chaplains. The next online class, ā€œThe Spiritual Side of PTSD,ā€ taught by PaulĀ Ziemer, WELS national civilian chaplain to the military, will begin in January 2018. A limited amount of financial aid is available from the Lutheran Military Support Group for WELSĀ militaryĀ contactĀ pastors to take chaplain certification courses.Ā Read the rest ofĀ Krigbaumā€™sĀ story atĀ wels.net/special-ministries.Ā 


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Thanks . . . for nothing

Mark G. Schroeder

Itā€™s one of those expressionsĀ drippingĀ with sarcasm.Ā Ā 

Youā€™ve been on hold for 30 minutes, trying to get an answer from your cable provider for the reason your cable signal keeps cutting out.Ā Finally, a human voice on the other end of the line asks you the reason for your call.Ā You explain, patiently at first, that every day for the past week, the picture on your television has disintegrated into an unwatchable blur of pixelated colors for hours on end.Ā And today, not only has the picture departed, but so has the sound.Ā The person at the other end of the line checks the signal to your house, and it checks out.Ā He asks you toĀ make sureĀ thatĀ allĀ your cables are still attached.Ā You report that they are all in place.Ā He then gives you instructions to reboot your system.Ā You do that, and the problem remains.Ā Finally, the person says, ā€œIā€™m sorry, there doesnā€™t seem to be anything I can do.Ā If you still have the problem tomorrow, please call back.ā€Ā 

And you think, and maybe actually say, ā€œThanks . . . for nothing.ā€Ā 

During this season of Thanksgiving, there is no shortage of things for which we can be truly thankfulā€”blessings spiritual and material that God has showered on us. Sometimes those blessings come as a response to fervent and specific prayers. More often, they come to us as Luther wouldĀ say, ā€œeven without our asking.ā€Ā Godā€™s blessings are often evident because of what he gives us. Itā€™s easy and natural for Godā€™s people to thank God for the blessings that he gives.Ā Ā 

But arenā€™t there also times when we can say to God, with no sarcasm but with complete sincerity, ā€œThanks, God, for nothingā€?Ā 

There are times when we pray earnestly that God will do something or give us something, but in his love and wisdom, he answers our prayer with a fatherly and lovingĀ no.Ā We pray that God will improve our familyā€™s financial situation, but it only gets worse. We pray that God will keep our loved ones safe on the highway, only to learn that there has been a terrible accident. We pray that God will bless our nation with wise and honest leaders, only to read that another politician has been found guilty of bribery. When Godā€™s answer to sincere and fervent prayers isĀ no,Ā might we be tempted to mutter under our breath, ā€œThanks, God, for nothingā€?Ā 

When God seems to be withholding the blessings or help we expect and desire, we should indeed say, ā€œThanks, God, for nothing,ā€Ā but not in a sarcastic and bitter way.Ā We can and should say those words with all sincerity and gratitude.Ā ā€œLord, I asked you for something, but you have lovingly answeredĀ noĀ and given me nothing of what I asked.Ā Thank you, Lord, for nothing.Ā Thank you for knowing what is best for me and forĀ giving me not what I want but what I need.Ā Thank you, Lord, that by giving me nothing you are blessing me in many ways.Ā You are keeping something from me that would not be good for me, even though I have asked for it.Ā You are teaching me to be patient, to trust in you at all times, to demonstrate my faith in you by being thankfulā€”even when my sinful human eyes look for blessings only in prayers answered by yourĀ yesĀ to my requests.ā€Ā 

Itā€™s the season of thanksgiving.Ā A time to thank God for everything . . . and for nothing.Ā 


Mark SchroederĀ is president of WELS.


 

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Needed

Earle D. TreptowĀ 

Iā€™mĀ needed.Ā 

Maybe thatĀ soundsĀ a bit arrogant, but I have it on good authority.Ā The American Red CrossĀ regularly tellsĀ me soā€”byĀ personalizedĀ e-mail. I know what youā€™re thinking: ā€œI hate to burst your bubble, but all the Red Cross really needs is your blood.ā€ True enough. However, since they need somethingĀ fromĀ me, theyĀ stillĀ need me.Ā Iā€™m needed.Ā Ā 

You areĀ tooā€”and notĀ merelyĀ by the Red Cross.Ā Ā 

Even if no one has expressed that thought to you directly, itā€™s true. People all around you need youā€”and thatā€™s exactly the way God designed it to be. In each of the callings the Lord has chosen specifically for you, be that as friend, neighbor, congregation member, sibling, employee, spouse, parent, or child, he has surrounded you with needs. The needs vary dramatically. Your employer needs an honest dayā€™s work. Your child needs a ride to her piano lessonĀ andĀ your insistence that she practice. Your grieving friend needs your support and a sympathetic ear. Each of those needs is a God-given opportunity to glorify him and bless others. While GodĀ doesnā€™t need your good worksā€”ā€œ[God] is not served by human hands, as if he needed anythingā€ (Acts 17:25)ā€”Ā your neighbor definitely does.Ā Ā 

Sometimes the needs of others overwhelm us, because the opportunities far outstrip our time and abilities. We want to be needed, but on a more modest scale, with needs that are more easily met. We desire opportunities to serve, but would prefer to schedule them at more convenient times. As the needs of others pile up around us, the sinful flesh proposes the logical solution. ā€œWithdraw,ā€ the sinful nature suggests. ā€œLet others deal with those needs.ā€Ā Ā 

The one who masquerades asĀ an angel of lightĀ chimes in: ā€œYou need to step back fromĀ the needs of othersĀ and focus on your relationship with God.Ā Those stressful interactions demandĀ energyĀ thatĀ reallyĀ should be spentĀ onĀ prayer and meditation.ā€Ā The devil is oh-so-sneaky,Ā offeringĀ what appears to beĀ a pious reason toĀ disengage from the needs of the people aroundĀ us. But the devil isĀ an inveterateĀ liar.Ā Ā Ā 

While God invitesĀ usĀ to spend time with him in his Word each dayĀ so that heĀ mightĀ blessĀ usĀ with his love, he never describes it as an ā€œeither-orā€ proposition. Allow God to serve you through his Word, absolutely, just as Mary did while sitting at Jesusā€™ feet. But then,Ā because you have been servedĀ by the One who loves unconditionally, youĀ are eminently qualifiedĀ toĀ demonstrateĀ that unconditional love to others.Ā The peopleĀ God has placed aroundĀ youĀ needĀ youĀ andĀ theĀ unconditional loveĀ youĀ have experienced in Christ.Ā Desperately.Ā Ā 

You are needed even by people who think they donā€™t need you; they may have told you so in no uncertainĀ terms. Youā€™re needed by the coworker who belittles Christianity because he had a bad experience with the church in the past. He needs your patient, persistent love. The friend who stridently speaks against the Bibleā€™s ā€œoutdated teaching on moralityā€ to justify his sin needs you. He needs your gentle instruction in theĀ Word of the God who loves him in Christ. The neighbor who insists that Christianity provides nothing more valuable than any other religion needs you and your positive witness to Christ her Savior, who died that she might live.Ā Ā Ā 

Disengaging fromĀ peopleĀ in their need, even when theyĀ pleadĀ withĀ usĀ to do so, is simply not an option.Ā ChristĀ stoppedĀ to serve us in our need, though by nature we wanted nothing of the sort.Ā WeĀ who bearĀ Christā€™sĀ nameĀ canā€™t help butĀ do the same for others.Ā Ā Ā 


Contributing editor Earle Treptow, a professor at Wisconsin Lutheran Seminary, Mequon, Wisconsin, is a member at Calvary, Thiensville, Wisconsin.Ā Ā 


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Teen Talk: Count your blessings

Realize that what you have comes from God, and thank God every day for what you have.Ā Ā 

Isabella EckertĀ 

Count your blessings.Ā Ā 

IĀ was always told to count my blessings when I was having a hard timeĀ or feeling bad for myself or trying to fall asleep. When I think of counting my blessings,Ā I think of my faith, my family, a Christian home, nutrition, my health,Ā and those close to me. Those are all immediate things that pop into my mind. I am always thankful for those things, but I just do not find myself thinking about them that often or thanking GodĀ enoughĀ for them.Ā Ā 

I strongly believe that God puts people in your life to change the way you look at your own life.Ā I have had several people in my lifeĀ whoĀ have strengthened my faith in many ways.Ā Ā 

But one person I met really changed the way that I look at my own life. She was super friendly the instant we metā€”very talkative and energized! She was not shy about talking to a girl that she had just met. As we asked each other a few questions about ourselves, I soon found out that she had it rough. Growing up she was constantly bullied at school for being different. She even told me some very scary storiesĀ aboutĀ being bullied. It made me tear up. I couldnā€™t even imagineĀ the things that she went throughĀ 

I looked again at all the blessings that I had and still have in my life. I grew up in Christian schools; she went to big public schools where she was made fun of everyĀ day for just being herself. I have always had a healthy life; she grew up with unhealthy parents and family.Ā SheĀ alsoĀ had many difficulties with her own health. Thinking about what she had to go through made me really appreciate what I have.Ā Ā 

During our conversations, she mentioned that she was a Christian. It really hit me when she saidĀ that.Ā She had to go through health issues, family problems, death of a family member,Ā andĀ bullying;Ā yet she had faith through it all. I knew thatĀ even if I would never see her again,Ā I would see herĀ one dayĀ in heaven.Ā Ā 

Count your blessings.Ā NowĀ I try to count my blessings every day because I really appreciate what God has given me. He continues to bless me every day.Ā  Even when I do not notice his blessings, he continues to provide.Ā Ā 

God sometimes places people in your life to appreciate what you have. He definitely showed me my blessingsā€”very clearly.Ā Ā 

Recognize the blessings that have been given to you. Before you go to sleep at night, count your blessings. When you get up in the morning, count your blessings. Count your blessing in the middle of the day! Thank GodĀ that you have faithĀ and pray that it grows every day.Ā Thank God for the people in your life. Do not forget to pray for their faith too.Ā Ā 

ā€œPraise the LORD,Ā my soul, and forget not all his benefitsā€”who forgives all your sins and heals all your diseases, who redeems your life from the pit and crowns you with love and compassion, who satisfies your desires with good things so that your youth is renewed like the eagleā€™s. The LORDĀ works righteousness and justice forĀ all theĀ oppressed (Psalm 103:2-6).Ā 


Isabella Eckert, a senior atĀ LutherĀ Preparatory School, Watertown, Wisconsin, is a member at Calvary,Ā Thiensville,Ā Wisconsin.ā€ÆĀ 


 

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Working together to support congregations

WELS CongregationalĀ Services has put together a five-year plan to directĀ itsĀ work.Ā The plan addresses current demographic challenges facing many WELS congregations. Plans includeĀ Ā 

  • creating a present-day mission emphasis;
  • better capitalizing on WELSā€™ historic strengths;
  • focusing on closing the ā€œback doorā€;
  • striving to strengthen the family;
  • helping aging, rural congregations prayerfully work through their options; and
  • assisting congregations with self-assessment and planning.

Each area of WELS Congregational Services is working on different aspects of the plan, but many times the groups are working together to develop resources to face these challenges. For example, the Commissions on Evangelism and Lutheran Schools teamed up to develop a tool that helps congregations with outreach and allows them to capitalize on one of WELSā€™ historic strengthsā€”its schools.Ā Ā 

WELS maintains one of the largest private schools systems in the United States.Ā The greatest growth in WELSā€™ school system over the past 20 years has beenĀ in early childhood ministries. Many congregations have started early childhood ministries to reach into their communities to share the gospel with nonmember families and create a gateway for new members to join the church. Research has shown, though, that while these ministries are doing a wonderful job sharing Godā€™s Word with their young students, most are not reaching their studentsā€™ families. To help congregations create a harvest strategy that might better share Godā€™s Word with these families, the Commissions on Evangelism and Lutheran Schools createdĀ Telling the Next Generation: Utilizing our Schools for Outreach.Ā Ā 

Telling the Next GenerationĀ is a daylong workshop thatĀ helps congregation and school leaders focus on their joint mission, build relationships within the church and with school families, and develop an organized program to connect school families with the Word.Ā Since the program began in April 2016, 17 workshops have been held in 11 of WELSā€™ 12 districts. Almost 800 hundred people from 109 congregations have participated.Ā Ā 

ā€œTheĀ Telling the Next GenerationĀ workshopā€Æhas had an incredible impact on the early childhood ministry of Apostles,ā€ saysĀ Jay Bickelhaupt, pastor at Apostles, Billings, Mont. ā€œWe walked away with a detailed ministry plan and a refreshed focus to boldly proclaim the good news of Jesus to children and their families. Our meetings and futureĀ planning have become more streamlined as we go forward with our agreed upon outreach and evangelism goals.ā€Ā Ā 

Bickelhaupt also reports that within two weeks of the workshop, God blessed Apostles with two preschool families in the congregationā€™s Bible basics class. As he notes, ā€œTelling the Next GenerationĀ has empowered our ministry team spiritually with the gospel and has provided the practical lessons we needed to position our early childhood ministry as an outreach arm to our community.ā€ā€ÆĀ 

WELS Congregational Services will continue to work on other aspects of its five-year plan and release new tools and resources as they are developed.Ā Ā 


Learn aboutĀ the ministries supported by Congregational ServicesĀ atĀ wels.net/congregational-services.Ā Discover more about the current demographic challenges facing WELS and Congregational Servicesā€™ plans in the November edition ofĀ WELS Connection.Ā 


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Give thanks in all circumstances

InĀ the midst ofĀ strife and conflict,Ā we needĀ a spirit of thanksgiving.Ā Ā 

Jonathan P. HackbarthĀ 

You are undoubtedly familiar with the childhood poemĀ ā€œMary Had a Little Lamb.ā€Ā Lesser known is the author of that poem: an American writer named Sarah Hale. Even lesser known is the influence she had on the holiday we today call Thanksgiving.Ā 

The development of a national holidayĀ 

When it comes to the history of Thanksgiving, most Americans will point to the first Pilgrim celebrationĀ or perhaps President Lincoln. However, were it not for Sarah Hale, Thanksgiving may not be celebrated in the United States as it is today.Ā 

Most of us learned that the first Thanksgiving Day was celebrated by the Pilgrims in 1621 to give thanks for the harvest after a terrible first winter in the New World. In 1789, President George Washington issued a Thanksgiving Day Proclamation to commemorate the first Pilgrim celebration. But Thomas Jefferson, the third U.S. president, discontinued it, calling Thanksgiving ā€œa kingly practice.ā€Ā Ā 

Then, in the early 1800s, Sarah Hale began campaigning for the restoration of Thanksgiving as a national holiday. She wrote letters and sought appointments with national leaders through the course of five presidencies. Time after time she was politely rebuffed, sometimes being told her suggestion was impossible or impractical.Ā 

Finally, in 1863ā€”in the midst of the Civil Warā€”President Lincoln listened seriously to her plea that North and South ā€œlay aside enmities and strife on [Thanksgiving] Day.ā€ Lincoln proclaimed the fourth Thursday in November as the official ā€œNational Thanksgiving Day.ā€ This day was finally ratified by the U.S. Congress in 1941.Ā 

The need for a spirit of gratitudeĀ 

Perhaps we need a ā€œThanksgivingĀ ladyā€ like Sarah Hale to campaign for a spirit of Thanksgiving todayā€”not for a national holiday because we already have that, but for a spirit of gratitude within our hearts. And consider when she lobbied for Thanksgiving. The nation was divided, families were split apart by ideological differences, and strife and armed conflict created cemeteries for the dead. WhileĀ itā€™sĀ not in the midst of a civil war, much the same could be saidĀ aboutĀ our nation today!Ā 

What is the current conflict that scrolls across the headlines? Is it the ever-increasing violence in our world, both near and far? Is it the seeming downward spiral of decency and decorum among so many talking heads and influential voices in our nation? Is it conflict in your family?Ā  In your marriage? Is it a nagging discontent with your lot in life?Ā 

In the midst of all this, hear Scriptureā€™s call for a spirit of thankfulness, ā€œGive thanks in all circumstancesā€ (1 Thessalonians 5:18). Christ has ended the eternal conflict caused by our sin. Conflict and strife will remain part of this worldā€™s headlines. ButĀ weĀ are at rest;Ā weĀ are atĀ peace.Ā Jesus isĀ our rest and peace, and heaven isĀ our home. SoĀ no matter what the circumstances, we can live with a spirit of gratitude through Jesus.Ā 

On this the 500th anniversary of the Reformation, consider the following prayer for God-pleasing thankfulness, written by Dr. Martin Luther:Ā 

Ah, dear Lord God, only grant that we may believe and thank thee, who hast been so concerned about us, yea, hast given us everything in Christ. For this is the great and unspeakable mystery, hidden from all the wisdom of the flesh, that God, who to us is the heavenly and omnipotent Father in his majesty, actually died. He gave everything to his Son, who is of our flesh. To him he directs us. If we hear and acceptĀ him, we shall have everything.Ā (What Luther Says,Ā Vol.Ā 3,Ā #4360)Ā 


Jonathan Hackbarth is pastor at Salem, Woodbury, Minnesota.Ā 


 

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Does hating the war mean hating the warrior?

A Vietnam vet shares Lutherā€™s perspectives on soldiers andĀ the ā€œswordā€Ā as well asĀ tellsĀ hisĀ ownĀ personal story of discovery about what God says about war.Ā 

ErhardĀ P.Ā OpsahlĀ 

Many people today find war odious and are offended by anyone who is or hasĀ been in the military.Ā This hatredĀ was witnessed firsthand by most of us who returned from Vietnam to jeers and spit.Ā And many today coming back to civilian life from stints in our Armed Forces are experiencing isolation and disrespect, even in some congregations.Ā Why?Ā 

Well, warfare is disgusting behavior.Ā SoldiersĀ participate in the awfulĀ barbarity of purposely destroyingĀ homes and cities while also taking the lives of others,Ā including noncombatants.Ā That is unthinkable, especially for many Christians.Ā Ā 

ChristianĀ adviceĀ 

It mayĀ beĀ surprisingĀ to know that St. Augustine addressed the questionĀ of Christians and serving in the militaryĀ during the Roman Empire in his bookĀ The City of God.Ā Augustine affirms that two kingdoms simultaneously existā€”an earthly, visibleĀ kingdomĀ (secular government)Ā and aĀ believing, invisibleĀ realm.Ā One is temporal; the other spiritual.Ā Both answer to God.Ā 

Maybe more unexpected is that five hundred years ago, the Reformer Martin Luther was pressured to writeĀ somethingĀ onĀ Whether Soldiers, Too, Can Be Saved,Ā also translated asĀ Christians Can Be SoldiersĀ (Lutherā€™s WorksĀ [LW], Vol.Ā 46, pp.Ā 89-137).Ā 

A key character in the story behind Lutherā€™s book is Assa von Kram (or Asche von Cramm,Ā AschwinĀ IV, Ascanius von Cramm).Ā Born about 1490, Assa was a heralded cavalryman from Lower Saxony who made his nameĀ onĀ June 28, 1519,Ā at theĀ Battle of Soltau, a ā€œnoblesā€™ feud.ā€Ā He led a 400-knight regimentĀ on the battlefieldĀ in the victory of Henry the Middle over Henry the Younger.Ā Martin Luther was a good friend of Assa.Ā 

During the summer of 1525, AssaĀ happened to be visiting Luther in Wittenberg andĀ convincedĀ Luther to commit toĀ answerĀ questions peopleĀ had beenĀ askingĀ LutherĀ to address for five years.Ā Apparently, interest wasĀ piquedĀ by the fact that the Turks seemed determined in trying again to extend their IslamicĀ sultanate/caliphate intoĀ ChristianĀ Western Europe.Ā Another factor may have been the growing desire of some to exterminate the Lutheran heresy by force.Ā Misunderstandings of Lutherā€™s writingĀ duringĀ the Peasantsā€™ War were still being argued.Ā Luther had voiced opposition toĀ theĀ peasants when they resorted to force and rebelled against the nobles.Ā 

Luther wrote that the ā€œswordā€ of an earthly kingdom/nation/state has been instituted to punish evil, protect the good, and preserveĀ public orderĀ (Romans 13:1;Ā 1Ā PeterĀ 2:13,14).Ā He statedĀ that going to war is to bring about peace and obedience.Ā 

ā€œKillingā€ can be a ā€œwork of love.ā€Ā For example, says Luther, a good physician cuts off an infected arm to save a person from dying.Ā He wrote,Ā ā€œWhat men write about war, saying that it is a great plague, is all true.Ā But they should also consider how greatĀ the plague is that war preventsā€Ā [LW, Vol. 46, p. 96).Ā War can seem like an unchristian work completely contrary to Christian love. But he reminds us thatĀ ā€œif the sword were not on guard to preserve peace, everything in the world would be ruined because of lack of peaceā€Ā [LW, Vol. 46, p. 96).Ā 

Accordingly, the work of being a soldier, in itself, is right and godly.Ā Luther holds that God can tolerate a soldier who goes to war and kills, as one does to enemies by military law and in time of war.Ā But, he also warns of the abuse of this power and again cites the example of physiciansĀ who would ā€œneedlessly amputate a healthy hand just because they wanted to.ā€Ā 

Luther cites John the Baptist (Luke 3:1-18) as praising the profession of arms when Roman soldiers came to him for counseling.Ā At the same time, Saint John rejected any abuse of their positions of power.Ā Luther noted that Old Testament heroes who participated in war (e.g., Abraham, Moses, Joshua, and David) were not condemned by God.Ā 

Readers of Lutherā€™s book on theĀ likelihood thatĀ soldiersĀ could beĀ savedĀ alsoĀ are referred to another of his writings:Ā Temporal Authority:Ā To What Extent It Should Be ObeyedĀ (LW, Vol. 45, pp. 75-129).Ā Ā 

Luther makes two points to remember:Ā 

1)Ā Christians live under a spiritual government and are subject only toĀ God.Ā 

2)Ā As far as body and property are concerned, Christians are answerable to their rulers here on earth and owe them obedience.Ā Luther contends that ā€œif worldly leaders call on his people to fight, then they ought to and must fight, and be obedient, not as Christians, but as members of the stateā€Ā (LW, Vol.Ā 46, p.Ā 99).Ā Worldly leaders are also subject to God, Luther adds.Ā 


AĀ personalĀ reflectionĀ 

My awareness of history in the 1940s, ā€˜50s, and ā€˜60s centered on the specter of Communism taking over the world.Ā There was Eastern Europe and the Iron Curtain,Ā thenĀ Korea, thenĀ the Cuban Missile Crisis, and thenĀ Vietnam.Ā The United States seemed to be playing ā€œwhack-a-commie-moleā€ around the globe.Ā 

A charismatic young president was persuasive in urging Americans: ā€œAsk not what your country can do for you, but what you can do for your country.ā€Ā I enlisted in the Army right out of college.Ā 

All of a sudden, some things seemed to change.Ā The news media and academia led the movement of questioning the validity of the Vietnam War.Ā Was it a ā€œjustā€ war?Ā Were our soldiers out of control?Ā Everyone agreed that the massacre at My Lai was a terrible tragedy.Ā The battlefield was on TV every night at home.Ā 

Four men under my command died during the year I spent in a mechanized infantry battalion.Ā Little did I know that almost 40 years would pass before I recognized symptoms ofĀ post-traumatic stress disorder.Ā Studies circulated that 22 veterans a day were committing suicide; the average age was 55.Ā I was shocked into action.Ā 

Getting involved with veteransā€™ organizations helped me see sources of much of the pain.Ā Current and former military people are not always certain about their acceptance by the general population.Ā All too often, vets are being shut out of ā€œcivilian life.ā€Ā Most non-veterans donā€™t seem interested in finding out about the sacrifices our military members and their families madeā€”and continue to makeā€”in order to help preserve Americaā€™s precious democracy.Ā Ā 

So what do we do? Where do we go?Ā 

For me, the words of the Bible, St. Augustine, and Martin Luther are helping soothe the guilt that society imposed and still imposes on me and my comrades.Ā Finally realizing that most Christians do not believe that all killingĀ thatĀ soldiers doĀ isĀ murder opened my eyes even more.Ā IĀ amĀ getting a picture that I should have seen much more clearly some five decades ago.Ā 

The recently published Small Catechism confirms the proposition unambiguously and concisely, ā€œGod alone has the right to end a personā€™s life, but he delegates that right also to his representatives in government.Ā A person serving under the authority of the government as Godā€™s representativeā€”a government official, a soldier, or a police officerā€”may carry out capital punishment, take life in a war, or take life to protect the lives of othersā€ (Lutherā€™s Catechism 2017, p. 77).Ā 

Coming to a better understanding of this troubling issue helps me fight my doubts, distress, and depression each and every day.Ā 


Erhard Opsahl, president of the Lutheran Military Support Group, is a member at Risen Savior,Ā MacFarland, Wisconsin.Ā Ā 


Learn more about the Lutheran Military Support Group atĀ lutheranmilitary.org.Ā 


 

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Choral Festival offers lifelong blessings

ā€œJoyful.Ā  Exciting.Ā  Amazing.Ā  A taste of heaven.ā€Ā  These are just some of the words used to describe the WELS National Choral Festival which celebrates its fiftieth anniversary November 10-12, in La Crosse, Wisconsin–the place where it all began.Ā 

ā€œChoral Fest allowed my choir family to grow along with my faith…We all stood together as one in faith and in song.ā€Ā  Shelby Cary, Luther High SchoolĀ 

Luther High School, Onalaska, has a long tradition of musical excellence.Ā  Frank J.Ā ItalianoĀ directed the Luther High School band for many years.Ā  It was an outstanding group and popular with the students. ā€œOf the 60 kids in the school, 59 were in band,ā€ recalls DaveĀ Adickes, who inherited the Luther choral program early in his ministry.Ā Ā ItalianoĀ held the first Lutheran band festival at Luther in 1960 andĀ AdickesĀ thought, ā€œWe should do the same!ā€Ā  He dreamed big, calling it theĀ NationalĀ Lutheran Choral Festival and inviting eight WELS prep and high schools to sing in the first festival.Ā  Nearly 300 students gathered to ā€œcelebrate Godā€™s gift of musicā€ and get a ā€œsneak peek of heavenā€ as well as gain exposure to a wide variety of directors and techniques.Ā  (D)MLCā€™s head of choral music, Professor Martin Albrecht, directed the mass choir, which fulfilled another objective–getting students to ā€œlove DMLC,ā€ according toĀ Adickes.Ā  From the beginning, Friday nightā€™s concert was a secular concert performed by the individual choirs in which ā€œeveryone cheered for everyone.ā€Ā  Saturday was a day of rehearsal and fun, culminating with Sundayā€™s mass sacred concert.Ā  The location of Choral Fest changed as various WELS high schools hosted the event.Ā  Traveling to Choral Fest was ā€œexciting for the kids and us.ā€Ā Ā 

ā€œSome of the non-musical activities make Choral Fest Choral Fest even more than the singing!Ā  These are often the most memorable, along with praising God with our talents for a whole weekend.ā€Ā  Cameron Schroeder, Luther High SchoolĀ 

As the years went on, changes to Choral Fest included specialized clinicians, regional and national festivals held in alternate years with up to 21 high schools participating.Ā  In 1982, the 25th anniversary of Choral Fest,Ā AdickesĀ again hosted the gathering at Luther High School.Ā  This was the first time a special piece was commissioned for the festival, a tradition which has continued throughout the years.Ā Ā AdickesĀ says itā€™s ā€œgreat to see how [Choral Fest] has grown and how the directors have grown and how much the quality of the music has improved.ā€Ā  Choral Fest has ā€œhelped unite the schools and bring the congregations togetherā€ as students, directors, families and friends meet new people and enjoy Godā€™s wonderful gift of music together.Ā  Choral Festival continues ā€œto do what we hoped it would do from the beginning,ā€ saysĀ Adickes.Ā Ā Ā 

ā€œMy kids love Choral Fest.Ā  They make new friends, they are exposed to the directing styles of different directors, and they always express the deep joy they experience from singing beautiful music to Godā€™s glory with fellow Christians.Ā  As a teacher and director, what more could I want for them?ā€Ā  Ned Goede, WISCOĀ 

As Choral Festival celebrates its fiftieth anniversary, Luther High School will again serve as host, this time under the direction of DaveĀ Adickesā€™ son, Paul.Ā  PaulĀ Adickes, former Choral Festival attendee, director, clinician and previous host, says ā€œitā€™s really exciting for me to be hosting the 50th anniversary right here in the Coulee Region where it all started.Ā  Each Festival has been a unique and wonderful experience for me and my students.ā€Ā Ā Ā 

This yearā€™s festival will be held at the La Crosse Center with ā€œplenty of seating for everyone,ā€ according to the youngerĀ Adickes.Ā  Music from the past five decades, an alumni choir and commissioned works by Sarah Siegler and Dale Witte, including the final piece, an arrangement of ā€œGodā€™s Word Is Our Great Heritage,ā€ which also serves as this yearā€™s theme, are highlights of the anniversary.Ā  The image of the Mississippi River Bridge, ā€œan iconic feature in La Crosse,ā€ adorns the posters, symbolizing how ā€œChoral Festival 2017 will bridge the music of the past, present and future with the timeless heritage and hope that we have in the living and enduring Word of God,ā€ says PaulĀ Adickes.Ā Ā Ā 

ā€œI feel honored to be able to play at Choral Festival this year…Choral Fest honestly played a huge part in inspiring me to become a music teacher.Ā  I knew that someday I wanted to be able to lead students to praise God and witness together just like my grandfather and father have.ā€Ā  JenniferĀ Adickes, MLCĀ 

PaulĀ AdickesĀ continues, ā€œChoral Festival has endured for so many reasons beyond its musical value…The friendships that are created, the bonds of faith that are reinforced, and the words of faith proclaimed in song resonate in the hearts of our students long after the concerts. Choral Festival gives them an experience that is a lifelong blessing.ā€Ā 


Please visitĀ www.welsfinearts.orgĀ for more information about Choral Festival 2017, to register for the alumni choir or view a livestream of the secular and sacred concerts.


How God has blessed 50 years of the National Lutheran Choral Festival! From founder to director, present to past Choral Festival participants, so many had so much to say about their amazing experiences. Read on for a wonderful listing of Godā€™s grace through his gift of music to these individuals and know that the blessings were multiplied many times over in the thousands of participants and listeners over the years. To God be the glory!Ā Ā 


MORE INTERVIEWS

DaveĀ Adickes, retired teacher, Luther High School, Onalaska, Wis., and founder of the WELS National Lutheran Choral Festival:Ā 

DaveĀ AdickesĀ recalls taking the choir for Luther High School to Choral Festival in Arizona with aĀ side trip to the Grand Canyon.Ā ā€œWe tried to sing at a chapel on a promontory overlooking the canyon,ā€ heĀ says.Ā ā€œWe sangĀ but were kicked out, so we sang outside.ā€Ā Ā 

PaulĀ Adickes, teacher, Luther High School, Onalaska, Wis.:Ā 

ā€œI remember how exciting it was to be in Phoenix as a student, seeing the desert, and meeting fellow WELS students from all over the country.Ā This was my first experience in a choir that large.Ā It was amazing to hear that many voices singing together, praising God.ā€Ā Ā 

ā€œI remember our coach bus getting stuck in the mountains at 12,000 feet while traveling to a Festival, and doing theĀ MacarenaĀ with Lakesideā€™s choir on Interstate 80 somewhere in Nebraska.ā€Ā 

ā€œI remember the wonderful weekends I spent becoming friends with my fellow WELS choral directors, and I remember how much I have learned from them over the years.ā€Ā 

ā€œAs a director, I remember several times being so moved that I was unable to sing during the sacred concert.Ā The impact of hundreds of young people proclaiming their faith in song with such conviction is unlike anything else.ā€Ā 

ā€œAs a clinician, I remember how humbling it is to stand in front of so many talented young peopleĀ andĀ toĀ work with them.Ā To be able to talk about our common faith, how it ties into the words and music and how the Holy Spirit would use that to reach the audience.ā€Ā Ā 

ā€œGrowing up, I always looked forward to Choral Festival, and I knew how much it meant to my father when he was directing.Ā I sat in the audience for many Choral Festivals long beforeĀ I was ever in high school.Ā I guess I caught that passion from my father.ā€Ā 

ā€œI strongly believe that as long as we value music as one of Godā€™s greatest gifts to mankind, there will be a Choral Festival.Ā The next generation of musicians coming out of our WELS colleges is well prepared to take Choral Festival into a very bright future.Ā Lord willing, I look forward to attending the 75th anniversary of Choral Festival!ā€Ā 

Ned Goede, teacher, Wisconsin Lutheran High School, Milwaukee, Wis.:Ā 

ā€œI did attend the first Choral Festival at OnalaskaĀ Luther in the fall of 1967.Ā I was a senior at Luther Academy in New Ulm.Ā Our music professor, Eldon Hirsch, selectedĀ 12Ā seniors to represent the school at this festival.Ā We rehearsed in the evening right after football and other practices and didnā€™t have time to shower.Ā So we began calling ourselves the ā€˜Dirty Dozenā€™ after a famous movie at that timeĀ I still think of that group as the ā€˜Dirty Dozen.ā€™ā€Ā 

ā€œThe first Choral Fest secular concert (now called the Pops Concert) was a madrigal concert with each group singing one madrigal andĀ one secular piece.Ā There were no microphones and definitely no dancing.Ā Itā€™s very different today with each group doing specialized choreography and having sound and light options.ā€Ā Ā 

ā€œI remember that the singers were packed in like sardines for the sacred concert, but we had fun and friendships that continued for many years afterward.ā€Ā 

ā€œHosting the 40th anniversary atĀ WiscoĀ was a personally joyous and satisfying experience for me.Ā But, the memory that will most be with me is watching these wonderful young men and women sing beautiful songs of faith from hearts of faith.Ā I get emotional every year as I experience this.ā€Ā 

ā€œI never thought that I would be a partĀ of the Choral Fest experience.Ā I actually was not even sure I wanted toĀ go into ministry at that time.Ā So thankful the Lord guided me to choose ministry.Ā (This is my 48th year in ministry.)ā€Ā Ā 

Cameron Schroeder, student, Luther High School, Onalaska, Wis.:Ā 

ā€œI love getting to meet students from other schools that are so similar to mine.Ā We are from pretty much the same world, and now those different parts of WELS collide in one spot, and itā€™s a blast!Ā Iā€™m also very musical and so getting to sing in a choir of this size is a HUGE privilege that not too many people get to have.Ā Itā€™s a ton of fun!ā€Ā Ā 

ā€œLast year, it was a free period between group rehearsals, and my friend and I wanted to meet people from other schools, so we both sat in office chairs with wheels that we found in our meeting room and then wheeled around the hallways, visiting other rooms and saying hi. Some of the non-musical activities make Choral Fest Choral Fest,Ā even more than the singing!Ā These are often the most memorable, along with praising God with our talents for the whole weekend.ā€Ā Ā 

Shelby Cary, student, Luther High School, Onalaska, Wis.:Ā 

ā€œLast year, I attended Choral Fest for the first time with virtually no expectations on what it would be like.Ā I traveled with my show choir from Wisconsin to Nebraska in a bus.Ā Upon arriving at Choral Fest, I realized that this would be an experience unlike any I had ever had.Ā The atmosphere was fun, inviting, Christian-based, and we all got the opportunity to connect with students from around the country.Ā We all had the same goal in mind:Ā to work hard and do our best to praise God with this very special event.Ā It was so incredible to work with the talented musiciansĀ whoĀ were our clinicians and the studentsĀ whoĀ shared the same love of music and singing as we did.Ā Choral Fest allowed my choir family to grow along with my faith.ā€Ā 

ā€œMy favorite memory of Choral Fest was working with all of these student to create something beautiful.Ā We all put in months of hard work and dedication in preparation for this one event,Ā and it all proved worth it in the end.Ā Singing with a group of hundreds of others just like me sent chills through my body.Ā We all stood together as one in faith and in song.ā€Ā Ā 

Sam Wetzel, student, Luther High School, Onalaska, Wis.:Ā 

ā€œThe reasonĀ Choral FestĀ is so special to me is because of the amazing feeling of Christian fellowship.Ā I loved the camaraderie, butĀ moresoĀ the ability to praise GodĀ enĀ masse.Ā I remember that the individual choirs would occasionally and spontaneously break into song.Ā Also, one night my friends and I stumbled upon a group of 50 or so kids crammed into a room.Ā In the hollow center of the assembly, people would, one at a time, go into the clearing and display a skill to a roaring crowd.Ā We spent a good ten minutes cheering on aĀ yo-yoer.ā€Ā Ā 

LaurenĀ Stuebs, student, Luther High School, Onalaska, Wis.:Ā 

ā€œThere are many special things about Choral Fest.Ā The one I would like to zero in on is the opportunity to meet with all our fellow Lutheran high schools.Ā We get the chance to meet with over 400 young Christians.Ā Itā€™s a really wonderful experience to be able to get to know the people who will someday be the leaders in our synod. ā€œĀ 

ā€œIā€™ll admit that it is very hard to choose one specific memory.Ā During the last song, ā€˜Oh, Church Arise,ā€™ I remember getting chills.Ā Everyone was really into the song,Ā and the message was just uplifting and encouraging.ā€Ā Ā 

JenniferĀ Adickes, student, Martin Luther College, New Ulm, Minn.:Ā 

ā€œChoral Festival is special because of the connections people make with each other.Ā I am currently a senior at Martin Luther College.Ā When I began my freshman year, I knew many of my classmates already through Choral Fest.Ā We bonded immediately, reminiscing about singing together and the shenanigans that went along with it.Ā In fact, this summer, I attended a wedding of a couple of my friends who met each atĀ atĀ Choral Fest my junior year!Ā In addition to Christian fellowship, Choral Fest provides the opportunity to lift our voices together in praise to God.Ā I remember looking over the sea of students and the congregation one particular National Choral Fest and feeling amazed that we were all gathered together, singing praise to our Father.Ā Worshipping with such a large body of students who share my faith is an experience that may only be topped in the heavenly choirs.ā€Ā 

ā€œI have many wonderful memories from Choral Fest.Ā Iā€™ve attended ten of them!Ā When I was younger, the Friday night Pops Concerts were my favorite.Ā I knew that someday IĀ wanted to perform a showy number (including choreography, of course!) with the Sound Foundation [Luther High School, Onalaska, Wisconsin].Ā I also got the unique opportunity of making connections and forming relationships with many high school choral directors.Ā Now that Iā€™m at MLC, having those connections has been a huge blessing to my ministry!Ā I also have fond memories of ā€˜homeroomā€™ times during the festivals.Ā This was a time where we had the option to relax in our designated rooms between practices.Ā Instead, however, we chose to wander to the homerooms of other schools and make friends.Ā We talked, joked around, and became friends.Ā Many people that I met this way at Choral Fest are still dear friends to me!ā€Ā 

ā€œI feel honored to be able to play at Choral Festival this year.Ā My grandpa is an incredibly driven, talented, loving man.Ā Itā€™s crazy to think that 50 years ago, Choral Fest had its start with him!Ā Iā€™ve been watching my dad conduct at Choral Festivals for as long as I can remember.Ā Even when I was a little kid, I loved telling everyone, ā€˜Thatā€™s my dad!ā€™Ā Because of the example set by both my grandpa and father, I decided to be anĀ elementaryĀ education andĀ secondaryĀ vocalĀ music double major at Martin Luther College.Ā Choral Fest honestly played a huge part in inspiring me to become a music teacher.Ā I knew that someday I wanted to be able to lead student to praise God and witness together just like my grandfather and father have.ā€Ā Ā 

Penny Nell Mielke, teacher, Crown of Life Lutheran School, West St. Paul, Minn.:Ā Ā 

ā€œLooking forward to this year as [my daughter] Maddy is blessed to participate. My sister and I [Winnebago Academy, Fond du Lac, Wis.] both have great memories of the 25th Choral Fest, and our mom was in the first one!ā€Ā Ā 

BethĀ BiedenbenderĀ Henry, teacher, Trinity Lutheran School, Coleman, Wis.:Ā ā€œMy first Choral Fest was in Arizona.Ā I went withĀ my sisterĀ Rachael.Ā It was the most memorable for me, not only to sing with so many other talented voicesĀ but alsoĀ it created friendships that are still around today.Ā I met cousins I didnā€™t know from California, stayed with my godparents who moved to Arizona from Michigan, got to experience Godā€™s marvelous creation of the Grand Canyon, and singĀ his praises for all who came.Ā That was the start of eight wondrous years from high school [Michigan Lutheran High School, St. Joseph, Mich.] through college of singing and enjoying it.Ā Each year after that you couldnā€™t wait to see your friends again and make new ones!ā€Ā Ā 

Jane FalckĀ Grobe, teacher, Salem Lutheran School, Stillwater, Minn.:Ā 

ā€œFun and fellowship!Ā Great memories and wonderful choirs!Ā The one I attended [as a member of Fox Valley Lutheran High School choir, Appleton, Wisconsin] was at St. Croix ironically!ā€Ā Ā 

JessieĀ BilitzĀ Polzin, stayathome mother, Hugo, Minn.:Ā 

ā€œI met my eventual husband my junior year at Choral Fest.Ā We reconnected later in college with a ā€˜Hey!Ā Didnā€™t I meet you at Choral Fest?!ā€™ The rest is history!ā€Ā Ā 

Rebekah HaagĀ Thoma, teacher, St. Peterā€™s Lutheran School, Sturgeon Bay, Wis.:Ā 

ā€œIt was a taste of heaven!Ā It felt as if I was singing with the heavenly choirs!ā€


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What it means to be truly Lutheran: Public ministers of the gospel are called to serve

Joel D. Otto

Priests in the Middle Ages had two primary tasks:Ā Correctly perform the sacraments of the church to earn Godā€™s grace on behalf of the people and listen to confession. The people were required to confess all their sins to the priest at least once a year. Priests had to learn how to cajole people into remembering all their sins. They also had to investigate and probe the circumstances and motives of those sins to know what earthly punishments the person had to perform. The priests had to be spiritual detectives. And they knew everyoneā€™s secrets.Ā 

This wasnā€™t the only problem among clergy at the time of Luther. Some of the more radical reform movements had self-proclaimed, self-appointed preachers. They took on the duties of spiritual leadership without being properly called to do so.Ā 

Truly Lutheran public ministers of the gospel are called to serve Godā€™s people with the gospel. First, theyĀ are properly called to do this work. Individually,Ā every Christian has the right and privilege to ā€œdeclare Godā€™s praisesā€ (1 Peter 2:9,10) and every Christian can forgive sins (John 20:19-23). But when Christians gather together around the Word and sacraments, someoneĀ who is gifted and trainedĀ needs to be called to serve the group with the Word and sacraments. Otherwise, disorderĀ could resultĀ (1 Corinthians 14:33,40). The Augsburg Confession stated the point succinctly and clearly.Ā ā€œIt is taught that no one should publicly teach, preach, or administer the sacraments without a proper [public] callā€ (Article XIV).Ā The Bible teaches that the Holy Spirit is calling public ministers of the gospel through the churchā€™s callĀ (Acts 20:28).Ā 

Second,Ā truly Lutheran public ministersĀ are called to proclaim the Word faithfully and administer the sacraments rightly. Pastors and other public ministers of the gospel are not spiritual detectives, entertainers, or corporate executives.Ā They are not toĀ act as dictators in the church (1 Peter 5:1-3). They are simply servants of Christ whose name they proclaim, and servants of Christā€™sĀ people whose blood purchased them as his people. Thatā€™s why the qualifications Paul listed for public spiritual leadership emphasize a Christian character that wonā€™t be an obstacleĀ to the gospel.Ā He wrote that a spiritual leader should ā€œbe above reproach, faithful to his wife, temperate, self-controlled, respectable, hospitable . . .Ā not given to drunkenness, not violent but gentle, not quarrelsome, not a lover of moneyā€Ā (1 Timothy 3:2,3). These qualified publicĀ ministers areĀ called to use the Word and sacraments for the spiritual benefitĀ of those whom they are called to serve. So they also need to be ā€œable to teachā€ (1 Timothy 3:2).Ā Ā 

Truly Lutheran public ministersĀ of the gospel need to know the Word and know how to communicate the Word. Thatā€™s why Luther encouraged,Ā ā€œPray diligently, as Christ Himself commands us to pray (Matt. 9:38), that God may grant us faithful laborers and pastors who are sincere and adhere to the Wordā€Ā (Lutherā€™s Works, Vol. 28, p. 62).Ā 


Questions to considerĀ 

  1. Read 1 Peter 2:9,10. Explain how this passage relates to the public ministry.

Every Christian is a royal priest, Godā€™s special possession, part of the people of God, by faith in Jesus. Every Christian has received mercy. Every Christian, therefore, has the right, privilege, and duty to ā€œdeclare the praises of him who called you out of darkness into his wonderful light.ā€ In other words, every Christian is to proclaim the gospel. But when two or more Christians get together to proclaim the gospel, or when a group of royal priests desires to proclaim the gospel in places where they cannot go, then one of those ā€œroyal priestsā€ has to serve as a leader; one of those royal priests has to serve in those other areas of ministry. For the sake of order and so that the gospel will be proclaimed faithfully, someone has to be chosen, trained, and called to serve the group with the gospel or serve on behalf of the group.

2. Describe how the teaching of the divine call is comforting to both called workers and congregation members.

Called workers can have the confidence and comfort that, even in challenging situations, they are serving where the Lord has called them to serve at this time. Likewise, for the congregation members, they can be sure that the called workers who are serving at this time and place are those whom the Lord has placed among them. The Lord has worked through the church to place his workers where he wants them to serve at this time (see Acts 20:28).

3. How does the Lutheran view of the public ministry affect the way that we educate future called workers (especially pastors)?

Since those who serve in the public ministry are called to proclaim the Word to and on behalf of the church, public ministers need to be taught the Word. Since those public ministers need to have the ability to teach the Word, those gifts need to be developed and cultivated. Therefore, the education of public ministers, especially pastors, emphasizes the tools needed to study the Word in depth, including the languages in which the Bible was written. The education of public ministers will also focus on learning how to communicate the Word. Therefore, classes in education, preaching, evangelism, and counseling are important. Since public ministers are serving the church and reaching out to the lost, they also have to understand people and the world in which we live. Therefore, classes in psychology and history are also part of training called workers.

Ā 


Contributing editor Joel Otto, a professor at Wisconsin Lutheran Seminary, Mequon, Wisconsin, is a member at Salem, Milwaukee, Wisconsin.Ā 


Ā This is the last article in a 14-part series on key doctrinal emphases that Luther brought back to light through the Reformation.Ā  Find this article and answers online after Nov. 5 atĀ wels.net/forwardinchrist.Ā 


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New director of discipleship

ā€œEncouraging and equipping congregations for faithful and fruitful gospel ministry.ā€Ā Ā 

Thatā€™s how Donn Dobberstein describes his new position as the director of discipleship for WELSā€™ Congregational Services. In this new role, Dobberstein will serve the WELS Commissions on Adult Discipleship and Youth and Family Ministry.Ā Ā 

Dobberstein is not a stranger to Congregational Services, having served as the chairman of the Commission on Evangelism for the past 10 years. He also says, ā€œTwenty-two years in parish mission settings have given me ministry experiences showing the importance of and the connect between ā€˜making disciplesā€™ and ā€˜continuing to disciple.ā€™ Evangelism and nurture are not at odds with each other but are complementary.ā€Ā Ā 

Dobberstein and his wife, Beth, are moving from their current home in Port Orange, Fla., to the Milwaukee, Wis., area as Donn begins his work at the WELS Center for Mission and Ministry in Waukesha, Wis. The couple have four children, two of whom still live at home.Ā Ā 

Dobberstein clearly feels a sense of urgency for this ministry. He notes, ā€œAfter years of the position being ā€˜dormant,ā€™ clarifying a sense of direction and vision will be a priority. Evaluating and prioritizing resources needed for WELS congregations will help us set goals for the next five years. My intention is to listen and learn, and toĀ support and serve my fellow coworkers and Godā€™s people. I believe God has given us a unique moment in his kingdom that can be seized that, God-willing, can lead to ministry activity.ā€Ā 


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Monuments: Lasting memories – Part 7

As youĀ look ahead,Ā remember the Israelitesā€™Ā monument at the JordanĀ that showsĀ how God keeps hisĀ pastĀ promisesĀ and continues to fulfill hisĀ promisesĀ forĀ the future.Ā Ā 

Samuel C. DegnerĀ 

The people of Israel gazed out across the JordanĀ Valley. There it was, right in front of them: the land flowing with milk and honey, the one they had dreamed of for generations. Exhilaration must have filled their hearts as they pictured the places where they would put up their housesā€”houses,Ā not tents!Ā 

A promise keptĀ 

But then again . . .Ā they had been here before. Forty years earlier, their forebears had looked at the same landscape and concluded they could never take it from its occupants. Now, those Canaanites were still there. Moses, on the other hand, was not; the one who had led them to this point now lay buried somewhere in Moab. Then there was that river at flood stage . . .Ā perhaps the people hadnā€™t noticed its distant roar at first. Was it excitement or fear that made their hearts beat faster?Ā 

That mix of anticipation and uncertainty is timeless. Brides and grooms feel it as they prepare to enter marriage, expecting both joys and challenges. So do graduates as they step into a wide open future, full of both opportunity and danger, without those who had guided them to that point. Retirees may wonder whether the coming years will be as golden as they imagine. Christians nearing death see paradise lying before them as well as the pain they may have to traverse to get there.Ā 

As you survey your future, consider the Israelites at the Jordan (JoshuaĀ chapterĀ 3). By Godā€™s power, they walked across the dry riverbed into a land that would no longer beĀ promised but simply theirs.Ā Ā 

A future guaranteedĀ 

This was more than the fulfillment of a centuries-old promise. God showed himself to be a ā€œliving God,ā€ always present with his people and fully capable of giving them the Canaanitesā€™ land. He wanted Israel to know they could confidently follow Joshua just as they had followed Moses, who had once led them across a different body of water. In other words, God was fulfilling his words from the pastĀ andĀ guaranteeing his words about the future.Ā 

To help his people remember this lesson through the coming years of conquest and for generations to come, the Lord commanded one man from each tribe to take a stone from the middle of the riverbed and place it at the Israelitesā€™ camp (JoshuaĀ chapterĀ 4). What a powerful monument: Rocks, worn and wet from years under a river, now stacked on dry land! A memorial to a promise keptā€”and a promise of more of the same.Ā 

Somewhere in that same river, some 1,400 years later, stood a living monument with the same message. As Jesus stepped out of those descending waters, another miracle took place: A dove and a voice from heaven,Ā said, ā€œThis is my Sonā€ (Matthew 3:17). It marked a promise kept:Ā The Savior had come, who was the reason God brought Israel to that land in the first place. It was also a sign of good things on the horizon: Jesusā€™ perfect life on earth earned us a perfect life in heaven.Ā Ā 

As you make your way toward that promised land, you can trust the same living Godā€™s presence and power to bring you safely through the obstacles in your path. The future that lies before you may both fill your daydreams and keep you up at night. But the Lord goes ahead to defend and bless you. Itā€™s his promise.Ā 


Contributing editor Samuel Degner is a professor at Wisconsin Lutheran Seminary, Mequon, Wisconsin.Ā 


This is the seventh article in a nine-part series on Old Testament monuments and what they mean to us today.Ā Ā 


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Godā€™s best is yours

ā€œHave no concern for your goods, for the best of allĀ the land of Egypt is yours.ā€Ā Genesis 45:20Ā (English Standard Version)Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā 

Daniel J. HabbenĀ Ā 

ā€œHave no concern for your goods, for the best of all the land of Egypt is yours.ā€Ā Ā 

These were Pharaohā€™s words to Josephā€™s brothers. After Joseph had revealed his identity to his brothers, Pharaoh instructed them to return to Canaan to fetch the rest of the family before returning to settle in Egypt. This was a generous offer! With a famine overshadowing the region, Pharaoh could have been reluctant to play host to more hungry mouths. But he not only invited Josephā€™s extended family to Egypt,Ā he also told Josephā€™s brothers not to bother bringing their possessions. Everything they needed would be provided from the best of the land.Ā Ā 

Godā€™s richesĀ 

In the face of such an offer, it would have extraordinarilyĀ rudeĀ and foolish of the brothers to dismiss Pharaohā€™sĀ generosityā€”toĀ insist on hauling to Egypt everything stored in their attics, garages, and junk drawers.Ā In essence,Ā the brothers would have been saying, ā€œWe donā€™t believe you,Ā Pharaoh. We donā€™t think you will really give us what we need to live. And we donā€™t think that what youĀ are offeringĀ is better than what we already have.ā€Ā Ā 

Josephā€™s brothers werenā€™t that rude or foolish. But thatā€™s often my shocking response to Godā€™s gracious promises. Sometimes I hold on to my worldly attitudesĀ because Iā€™m not entirely convinced God will share his vast riches with meā€”even though heā€™s promised to do just that. Think of how theĀ apostle Paul assured the Philippian Christians: ā€œMy God will meetĀ allĀ your needs according to theĀ richesĀ of his glory in Christ Jesusā€ (4:19, emphasis added). Iā€™ve been offered the best! I donā€™t need to cling to my worldly concerns as if to a life preserver.Ā Ā Ā 

Our concernsĀ 

What about you? Whatā€™s in your grasp that makes it difficult to see and appreciate Godā€™s great blessings? Are you holding on to resentment? Let it go! God knows best how to handle the situation. He calls you to exercise patient forgiveness and leave theĀ judging up to him. Do you see how this makes you rich? Itā€™s as if you have your own private investigator looking into the matter so that you donā€™t have to worryĀ aboutĀ it.Ā Ā 

Are youĀ grasping for approval fromĀ nonchristianĀ friends?Ā They arenā€™t going to speak up in your defense onĀ judgmentĀ day. They canā€™t bring a loved one back to life.Ā They canā€™t soothe your guilty conscience or prepare you for eternity.Ā But your gloriousĀ and gracious friendĀ JesusĀ canĀ and will.Ā Ā 

And what things are so important that they divert your attention from Godā€™s riches?Ā Are you stretching to the breaking point to snag that luxury vehicle with those awesome gadgets, or do you treasure that stylish patio furniture or some other thing? Their warranties wonā€™t outlastĀ judgementĀ day.Ā Ā 

Itā€™s tempting to expend oodles of energy and concern over worldly goods and concerns, but they are only baubles and distractions compared to the riches of Godā€™s glory that are yours through faith in Christ. Such riches free us to live generous livesā€”to share our faith, our time, our abilities,Ā andĀ ourĀ income with an open hand.Ā 

So fix your eyes on Jesus, the king of the universe,Ā whoĀ saysĀ to you, ā€œHave no concern for your earthly goods, for the best ofĀ heavenĀ is yours . . .Ā forever.ā€Ā 

Oh,Ā what a promise! I donā€™t need to weigh myself down with distractions and stuff. The Lord gives me the worldly things I need, but they are unimportant.Ā If I have Jesus, I have everything.Ā Ā 


Contributing editor Daniel Habben is pastor atĀ St. Johnā€™s,Ā St. Johnā€™s, Antigua, West Indies.Ā Ā 


 

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Abiding truth: Part 11

Heaven is our home, and God promises we will rise glorious to liveĀ thereĀ forever in perfect joy.Ā 

Mark E. BraunĀ 

We are accustomedĀ toĀ seeingĀ a jowly, rotundĀ imageĀ of Martin Luther.Ā ButĀ in hisĀ earlyĀ lifeĀ he was often frail and sickly.Ā Ā Ā 

EarthlyĀ sicknessĀ 

A description of Luther in his mid-30s called him so ā€œemaciated from care and studyā€ that one ā€œcan almost count his bones through his skin.ā€Ā He recalled that as a monk he nearly killed himself ā€œby fasting, abstinence, and austerityā€ (Lutherā€™s WorksĀ [LW], Vol. 8, p. 173). He suffered at times from rheumatic fever, upper respiratory infections, inflation of his nasal cavity that led to a ruptured eardrum, an abscess in his leg, and various infectious diseases.Ā Ā 

As he grew older, Luther was afflicted with kidney stones, digestive problems, and gout. The care he received from doctors sounds as dreadful as the diseasesĀ it wasĀ intendedĀ to cure. In one treatment,Ā LutherĀ complained that doctors gave him so much water to drink ā€œas if I had been a big ox.ā€ Doctors later prescribed a ā€œtonicā€ of garlic and horse manure boiled together.Ā LutherĀ rarely suffered in silence, and his laments were blunt and earthy.Ā Ā 

His finalĀ sicknessĀ was preceded by heart palpitations, shortness of breath, and pain down his left arm. HeĀ died ofĀ a heartĀ attack three months after his 62ndĀ birthday.Ā Ā 

The root causeĀ of all his illnesses, he knew, wasĀ not medical but theological.Ā Luther remarked on the perfection AdamĀ enjoyedĀ beforeĀ the fall:Ā 

For us today it isĀ amazingĀ that there could be a physical life without death and without all the incidentals of death, such as diseases, smallpox,Ā [and]Ā stinking accumulations of fluids in the body. In the state of innocence no part of the body was filthy.Ā (LW, Vol.Ā 1, p.Ā 110)Ā 

Our first parentsĀ ā€œlived among the creatures of God in peace, without fear of death, and without any fear of sicknessā€ (LW, Vol.Ā 1, p.Ā 113). It was sin that causedĀ ā€œhideous lust, depravity, troubles, sicknesses, and other evilsā€ (LW,Ā Vol.Ā 4, p.Ā 5).Ā From the story of JobĀ ā€œone can gather sure enough proof ofĀ whatĀ Satan isĀ able to do and what heĀ desiresĀ most.ā€ SatanĀ ā€œsends enemiesā€Ā andĀ ā€œevenĀ infects the body and fills it with boilsā€ (LW, Vol.Ā 3, p.Ā 270).Ā 

LutherĀ frequentlyĀ called hisĀ ownĀ body a ā€œmaggotĀ sackā€Ā and a ā€œdecomposed rascalā€ (LW, Vol. 28, p.Ā 112,110).Ā Ā 

Heavenly joyĀ 

But in a series of sermons on the great resurrection chapterĀ 1 Corinthians 15Ā begun in 1532 and extendingĀ into 1533, Luther celebrated Godā€™s cure forĀ sinā€™sĀ corruption.Ā Human reason, he knew, can only concludeĀ thatĀ ā€œthe world has stood soĀ long,Ā that one person after another,Ā remains dead, decomposes,Ā andĀ crumbles to dustĀ in the graveā€ (LW,Ā Vol.Ā 28, p.Ā 69).Ā Yet ourĀ assuranceĀ of resurrection is grounded in the resurrection of Christ, ā€œthe chief article of the Christian doctrineā€ (LW,Ā Vol.Ā 28, p.Ā 94).Ā Ā 

In our resurrection, ā€œeveryoneā€™s body will remain as it was created.ā€Ā YetĀ for theĀ resurrectedĀ man or womanĀ ā€œit will no longer be necessary toĀ eat,Ā toĀ drink,Ā toĀ digest,Ā to sweep, to live with husband or with wife, to begetĀ children,Ā to cultivate the fields, to rule home or cityā€ because ā€œall that pertainsĀ to the essence of these temporal goods and is part of temporal life and works will cease to beā€Ā (LW, Vol.Ā 28, pp.Ā 171,172). The form of our resurrection body ā€œwillĀ be a wholly different, more beautiful, and perfect existence, devoid of all infirmities and wantsā€Ā (LW, Vol.Ā 28, p.Ā 172). Death itself will beĀ undone. DeathĀ willĀ say to us:Ā ā€œStop eating, drinking, [and] digesting, and lieĀ down and decompose so that you mayĀ acquireĀ a new, more beautiful form, just as the grainĀ does which sprouts anewĀ from theĀ soilā€ (LW, Vol. 28, p.Ā 182).Ā 

The resurrected bodyĀ ā€œwill sallyĀ forth into heavenā€ to ā€œplay withĀ sun and moon and all other creaturesā€Ā andĀ will be ā€œdelighted by this.ā€Ā It will be so satisfied and blessed that there willĀ no longer be any thoughtĀ ofĀ eating and drinking. ā€œWe will be illumined by [God] and know him, notĀ only with regard to the soul, but our whole body will be pervaded. It will be as clear and light as air,ā€ and ā€œyet we will have a trueĀ bodyā€ (LW, Vol.Ā 28, pp.Ā 189,190). All this will be true because ā€œGod did notĀ createĀ man that he should sin and die, but that he should live.ā€Ā SinceĀ Christ has removed all theĀ filthy, shamefulĀ effects of sin,Ā ā€œall will be pure, and nothing that is evil or loathsome will be felt any longer on earth.ā€ This can only happen when we ā€œfirstĀ shed this old, evil garment through deathā€ (LW, Vol.Ā 28, p.Ā 203).Ā 

LaterĀ in 1533,Ā in a sermon onĀ John 14:6, Luther summarized our great hope:Ā 

I am baptized in Christ,Ā and believe that he is my Savior and theĀ WayĀ onĀ whichĀ IĀ am to comeĀ to heaven.Ā Hence,Ā though I do not knowĀ the duration of my sojourn here or how soon I will divest myselfĀ ofĀ thisĀ bag of worms, IĀ doĀ know that I will live with himĀ eternally. Even thoughĀ this mortal bodyĀ closes its eyes and all its senses, andĀ though it doesĀ not knowĀ what will become of itā€”this is immaterial. It should not know or perceive this, but permitĀ itselfĀ toĀ be carried to theĀ cemetery, to be interred inĀ the ground andĀ reducedĀ to dust until GodĀ raises it upĀ again.Ā And yet, God be praised, as a Christian I do know where I will go and abide; for I was assured of this in Baptism, and likewise inĀ the Sacrament.Ā (LW, Vol.Ā 24, pp.Ā 44,45)Ā 


Mark Braun, a professor at Wisconsin Lutheran College, Milwaukee, Wisconsin, is a member at Grace, Waukesha, Wisconsin.Ā 


LutherĀ still speaksĀ 

Busy as Luther was, his eyes of faith were focused on heaven. In a sermon on Titus 2:13,Ā he urged believers,Ā ā€œWe should learn to bring our eyes, our hearts, and souls to bear upon yonder life in heaven and in a lively hope await it with joy. For if we would be Christians, the ultimate objects of our quest should not be marrying, giving in marriage, buying, selling, planting, buildingā€”activities that Christ says (Matt. 24:37f.; Luke 17:26ff.) the wicked will be engaged in especially before the Last Day. To be sure, we, too, must use these things in order to satisfy the needs of the body. But our ultimate quest should be something better and higher: the blessed inheritance inĀ heaven that does not pass awayā€Ā (What Luther Says,Ā Vol 2,Ā #1891)Ā 

Luther was no stranger to death. It had invaded his parsonage and carried off two daughters, oneĀ 8Ā months old and the otherĀ 14Ā years. But the Reformer found his comfort in what the Scripture said and what he therefore preached. Since Christ had paid fully for sin, death could no longer be punishment for the believer. Instead it was the necessary step from earth to heaven.Ā 

See how important is the message of the gospel that God restored to the church through his servant Luther. Without the assurance that sinā€™s punishment has been paid, death would still be sinā€™s horrible wage. Hell would still be the sinnerā€™s painful destination. For eternity, the sinnerā€”both body and soulā€”would be locked behindĀ hellā€™sĀ dismal prison doors.Ā 

Luther lived with his eyes of faith focused on heaven. While he waited, though, he was busy preaching the victory won fully by the Savior.Ā 


RichardĀ LauersdorfĀ is a pastor at Good Shepherd, West Bend, Wisconsin.Ā Ā 


 

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Light for our path: Levels in heaven

Could you explain the different levels in heaven? I was told that people who do the greatest works on earth will get the upper levels in heaven. I have a hard time with this because itĀ sounds like work righteousness.Ā 

James F. Pope

Your question provides the opportunity to marvel at the gracious love of God Christians enjoy in equal measure and in unique ways.Ā 

Salvation: equally enjoyedĀ 

You are correct in rejecting work righteousness as a way to heaven. If we were to attempt to save ourselves, we would have to be perfect, keeping every part of Godā€™s law every second ofĀ our lives. We cannot do that. In addition, our attempts at personal holiness come to a crashing stop when we realize that we begin life with a sinful nature. We cannot be perfectĀ on our own to enjoy salvation.Ā Jesus was perfect for us. His holy life and substitutionary death are the reasons for our salvation. Our works do not contribute in any way to our salvation (Titus 3:5,6). The salvation we enjoy is Godā€™s doing.Ā 

More than that, the salvation you and I enjoy is what all Christians possess. The book of Revelation illustrates that well. In one vision, the apostle John describes Christians who had been killed for their faith being given ā€œa white robeā€ (6:11). The garment represents the robe of righteousness Jesus won and which people ā€œwearā€ through faith in him. Each of those martyrs received a white robe. Some did not receive half a robe; others, two robes. All enjoyed salvation equally. Jesusā€™ parable of the workers in the vineyard (Matthew 20:1-16) also teaches that Godā€™s children equally enjoy his salvation.Ā 

While all Christians enjoy the same gift of salvation, Scripture speaks of God customizing his gracious blessings. That brings us to the main part of your question.Ā 

Degrees of glory: individually blessedĀ 

Rather than speaking of levels of heaven (as the Mormons do), we understand Bible passagesĀ like Daniel 12:3; Matthew 25:23,28,29; Luke 19:17,19; 1 Corinthians 3:12-15; 2 Corinthians 9:6; and Revelation 14:13 to address the subject of ā€œdegrees of glory.ā€ That expression describes the individual blessings God will graciously bestow on hisĀ followers in connection with their faithful earthly lives. We will have to wait to see what that specifically means.Ā 

What it means now is that we do not serve the Lord with the idea of getting something from him in the future. That is the mercenary attitude of which you spoke in your question. Such an attitude can easily plague Christians.Ā 

I once had a number of conversations with a person who was interested in joining the church I served. The personā€™s profession of faith and our churchā€™s statement of belief matched until she brought up ā€œonce saved, always saved.ā€ In spite of citing Bible passages that speak of people falling from faith (for example, Matthew 13:20,21; 1 Timothy 1:19), she regarded apostasy as an impossibility. Hypothetically conceding to her position, I asked what reason she had to attend worship services in church. Her answer made everything clear: ā€œTo get more jewels in my crown.ā€Ā 

Now I got it. Her stated motive for doing Godā€™s will was to get something in return. That is an attitude we need to reject. Any way that God chooses to bless our Spirit-driven lives of love (Philippians 2:13) is grace. Pure grace.Ā  Ā 


Contributing editor James Pope, professor at Martin Luther College, New Ulm, Minnesota, is a member at St. John, New Ulm.


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Heart to heart: Parent conversations : What should we do when our children grow silent?

What should we do when our children grow silent?

There are days when we all would long for some silence as parentsā€”during those longĀ colicky twilight hours;Ā the ā€œwhyā€Ā stage of toddlerdom;Ā the early grade school years whenĀ weā€™re treated to an unending litany of made-upĀ knock-knock jokes;Ā and the ā€œyouā€™re so uncool, why canā€™t I . . .ā€Ā rants, stomping, and door slammingĀ of pre-teens and teens. Yet, there are also times when we get concerned once that silence materializes. Our authors this month give us some options for how to deal with that kind of silence. So far,Ā none of them are willing to offer ways to achieve silenceĀ during those other stages. . .Ā  Ā 

Nicole Balza


It seems that we live in fear of quietness.Ā Not only do we as a culture shyĀ away from it, but we donā€™t particularly like it when our children grow quiet.Ā Ā 

I would encourage you to embrace the quietness.Ā 

One of theĀ benefits to homeschooling for six yearsĀ was that IĀ easilyĀ was able to incorporate quiet time with God into our day. Now that most of them are in brick-and-mortar schools, it is a little more difficult, but my children have learned the benefits to taking quiet time.Ā 

Jesus modeled quiet time on a regular basis. Whenever his disciples couldnā€™t find him, it was usually because Jesus took time out to be in solitude with his Father.Ā 

What a gift to model to our own children. When we are frustrated, scared, confused, or even full of joy, how often do we find solitude toĀ hang out with Jesus? When my children are angry or overwhelmed, they can learn to take the time to break away from the chaos (or even the perceived chaos) and lean on theĀ true Comforter.Ā 

What about whenĀ our children grow quiet to isolate themselves in an unhealthy way?Ā Tad and I work hard to create space. Safe space. Space to feel disappointed, hurt, overwhelmed. Let them share without judgment or the need to fix (this is a constant struggle for me). Listen. Really listen.Ā Without reacting.Ā Ā 

Sometimes ourĀ kidsĀ justĀ donā€™t want to talk toĀ us.Ā I truly believe that is okay. Tad and I have prayerfully asked for guidance to find Christian mentors for each ofĀ our children. We found peopleĀ who foster relationships with our children soĀ they can go toĀ themĀ when they donā€™t feel like theyĀ are ready to talk to us. We intentionally askĀ people who we know will provide the spiritual guidance that will bring our children closer to Jesus.Ā Ā 

One last thing I would like to add is to pray.Ā Pray forĀ your children. Not only in the quiet of your bedroom at night, but also out loud in front of them. Maybe pray outside their closed door. Maybe prayĀ in the car while they are strappedĀ . . .Ā I mean, buckledĀ . . .Ā in.Ā Maybe even put your hands on them and literally pray over them.Ā Let them hear the words you share with your heavenly Father on their behalf. Maybe pray in their room when they arenā€™t in there.Ā Whatever it looks like in your home, keep praying.Ā 


JenniĀ SchubringĀ and her husband, Tad, have five children ranging in age from 8 to 16. They are also licensed foster parents.Ā Ā 


One of the greatest skills of parenting isĀ communicating withĀ our children.Ā Truly hearing them, reflecting their words, giving them an understanding that their thoughts and feelings are heard and acknowledged.Ā Donā€™t we all want people like this in our lives?Ā What a wonderful demonstration of love to be fully present with another person in close communication.Ā Ā 

As children grow and develop and experience a multitude of new things, there is a lot to process and understand.Ā What if we get the sense thatĀ our child doesnā€™t want to talk about it?Ā Here are a few things to keep in mind:Ā 

Parents of young children:Ā Now is the time to set the stage for a lifetime of proper communication.Ā Get them used to talking about theirĀ day.Ā Consider making it a bedtime ritual.Ā Share one great part of your day and one not-so-great partā€”both childĀ andĀ parent.Ā Then spend time in prayer thanking God for the highs and asking for his help regarding the lows.Ā This early communication sets the stage for the teen years.Ā Ā 

Another thing to keep in mind is our childrenā€™s temperaments.Ā By nature,Ā donā€™tĀ some kids seem to think out loudĀ and others internalize?Ā Some kids want/need to be verbal.Ā Others, not so much.Ā WeĀ parentsĀ have these same natural preferences.Ā 

Hereā€™s a recent example in my family.Ā I picked up Kayla fromĀ an after-school practiceĀ andĀ said,Ā ā€œHi.ā€ I got aĀ hiĀ back,Ā and then IĀ settled into a comfortable silence.Ā After a few seconds,Ā Kayla said, ā€œAsk me something about high school.ā€Ā Ā 

Boy,Ā do I have it made in the communication parenting skill area with her!Ā Not only did my extroverted daughter tell me about her day, butĀ sheĀ even interjectedĀ questions to herself for me!Ā ā€œLetā€™s see, what else happened today?ā€Ā Ā 

NowĀ myĀ seventh-gradeĀ son,Ā Josh,Ā is a bit different.Ā I picked him up from school and made the mistake of askingĀ himĀ a close-endedĀ question:Ā ā€œHow was your day, buddy?ā€Ā He replied with, ā€œGood.ā€Ā Insert silence.Ā 

I have come to understand thatĀ JoshĀ prefers to process his thoughts internally and needs to be drawn out with more questions such as,Ā ā€œWhat was your favorite thingĀ today?ā€Ā ā€œHowĀ come?ā€Ā ā€œWhat did everyone play at recess?ā€Ā Reflecting some of his thoughts and feelings keeps the communication going.Ā But there are times when an introvert simply needs to spend time in thought in order to process effectively.Ā Silence is important.Ā Ā 

Is it a problem whenĀ ourĀ kids are silent?Ā Maybe for some.Ā If Kayla grew silent,Ā Iā€™d be quite concerned.Ā I wouldĀ check on her for sure.Ā Joshā€™s silence can beĀ harder to decipher. Is it his natural tendency or could he be troubled?Ā Whichever the case, my wife, Kelly, and I make it our goal to watch for those opportunities to check in and give both kids the understanding thatĀ weĀ are here and willing to talk if or when they needĀ to.Ā It is our way of demonstrating our love for God in their lives.Ā Ā 


DanĀ NommensenĀ and his wife, Kelly, have a teenage daughter and a pre-teen son.Ā 


Sometimes I think half the battle of parenting is not to take anything too personally. When your teenage boy goes quiet, for instance, itā€™s usually not about you.ā€ÆĀ 

It can be a hard adjustment, though, because wasnā€™t it just last week when he was sitting in the kitchen, going on and on while you were browning the ground beef? I once listed everything my 11-year-old son talked about in a 20-minute stream-of-consciousness deluge, at which my only requirement was to nod and grunt. His oration included palindromes, peristalsis (which is why you can drink milk upside down), how his arms were getting stronger (so adorable), and the middle name of HarryĀ Truman. (Itā€™sĀ ā€œS,ā€Ā by the way. I know this because he told me.)Ā 

But then the chatterbox morphs into the one grunting, and you panic a little: Why doesnā€™t he talk toĀ meĀ anymore? Is he in trouble? Does he hateĀ me?ā€ÆĀ 

What I learned is this:ā€ÆĀ 

  • A bit of silence is normal. Teens are supposed to grow up and separatefrom their parents. Part of that is talking to you less often.ā€ÆĀ 
  • Asking a million questions does not work. Even though you just want him to know youā€™re interested in his life, it can come off as prying and controlling.
  • It sometimes works to ask about a friend: ā€œSo why isnā€™t Riley going out for choir this year?ā€ That can lead to an actual conversationā€”about other friends, Rileyā€™s pool party three weeks ago, and maybe even the girl heā€™s had his eye on. (Mission accomplished.)
  • Respect his privacy. Donā€™tshareĀ the news about that girl he has his eye on with your book club.ā€ÆĀ 
  • Donā€™t make everything a teachable moment. If he tells you heā€™s going to skip college and take his garage band on the road, just say, ā€œOkay!ā€ Chances are, heā€™ll figure outhow dumb that is all on his own. But if you shut him downĀ right away, the next time he has a big dream or crazy idea, he wonā€™tĀ bringĀ it to you.Ā Ā 
  • Have adult conversations about adult topics at the dinner tableā€”the latest political question, a home budget issue, something you saw at the store that made you uncomfortable. Let everybody weigh in. Treat all responses, even the immature ones, with equal respect.

Now itā€™s possibleĀ that a teenagerā€™s silence is a warning sign. If heā€™s hiding in his room all the time or is exceptionally surly, he may be struggling with something bigger than he can handleā€”a traumatic breakup, guilt over a sin, an Instagram situation that exploded, some kind of violence, even depression or substance abuse.Ā 

In this case, although heā€™s silent, heā€™s actually crying out for help, and you need to be the parent. Search his room. Check his social media. Ask another adult he trustsā€”an uncle or teacherā€”if somethingā€™s going on that you should know about. If the situation warrants, talk to a counselor with him.ā€ÆĀ 

But thatā€™s the exception. Usually a little silence is just part of your teenagerā€™s individuationā€”growing up and separating himself from you. (This is the goal, remember? We donā€™t want to be doing their laundry when theyā€™re 23.)ā€ÆĀ 

If you give him respectĀ and love and space,Ā heā€™ll know he can come talkĀ to youĀ whenever he wants to.Ā Youā€™ll be browning the ground beefĀ some evening, and suddenly heā€™ll feel the need to tell youā€”everything. Whether heā€™s 11 or 17 or 30, just nod and let the boy talk.Ā Ā 


Laurie Gauger-HestedĀ and her husband, Michael, have a blended family that includes her two 20-somethings and his teenage son.Ā Ā 


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