Helping friend undertand the Bible
How can I best explain to a friend the difference between the Old Testament laws that no longer apply to us ( like women covering their heads) and those that still apply, which address questions like women voting, or helping lead worship. She equates all of these. How can I best direct her in God's Word for better understanding?
The “Light for our path” column in the May 2014 issue of Forward in Christ addressed a question very similar to yours: “Old Testament laws are often quoted on Facebook as still being applicable. I would like to let people know from the Bible that this is not correct. Where can I start?”
The beginning of the answer starts this way: “Where do you start with a response? By recognizing that the laws in the Old Testament varied in purpose and duration.”
This link will take you to that column.
When it comes to other parts of your question, it is a matter of helping your friend see the difference between universal principles and the application of scriptural principles. A book like “A Bible Study of Man and Woman in God’s World” would be helpful for you in speaking to your friend. It is available from Northwestern Publishing House.
The questions you have asked are important. The responses needed are longer than is appropriate for this forum. That is why I am recommending these resources. I pray they are helpful.