Comfort for survivors

“The Lord does not look at the things people look at. People look at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart” (1 Samuel 16:7). You and I want to remember that we cannot see into the heart of anyone who has died, let alone someone who has committed suicide.

The Bible teaches that Christian faith saves and unbelief condemns (Mark 16:16). The Bible teaches how vitally important it is to have Christian faith in the heart when life on earth comes to an end (Revelation 2:10).

There was a time when Christians concluded that all those who took their own lives were eternally lost. Over time, people recognized that some Christians might have taken their lives without losing their faith. A person who professed Christ as Savior might have committed suicide because of psychological or other mental health issues. With clear thinking, such a person would not have taken his or her life. Another person who professed Christ as Savior might have committed suicide as the result of a rash act or in a moment of weakness, while still being in the faith. Taking one’s life is sinful, but there could be explanations for the actions that do not presuppose the absence of faith. Again, God alone knows what is in a person’s heart at death.

To those who are the survivors of a loved one who has died in any way, I would bring the comfort of God’s word. God is still their refuge and strength (Psalm 46). God stands ready to hear and answer their prayers (Psalm 50:15). God promises he will never leave or forsake them (Hebrews 13:5). God promises strength for daily living (Isaiah 41:10).

You may be interested in reading And She Was a Christian, a book that addresses the subject of Christians and suicide. Your church library may have a copy. It is available from Northwestern Publishing House. God bless you.