Translation help

Someone told me that in the original Greek, the Bible didnā€™t say to a man: do not lie with another man but that it says donā€™t lie with a boy (to prevent abuse). Please help.

It looks like your request is addressing Leviticus 20:13. The 1984 NIV rendered that verse this way: ā€œIf a man lies with a man as one lies with a woman, both of them have done what is detestable.ā€ The 2011 NIV puts that verse this way: ā€œIf a man has sexual relations with a man as one does with a woman, both of them have done what is detestable.ā€

The Hebrew language, the primary language of the Old Testament, has several words that can be translated ā€œman.ā€ The Hebrew word that is translated ā€œwith a manā€ in the verse above refers to a ā€œmanā€ or a ā€œmale.ā€

Context will determine the particular shading of words. So, for example, the Hebrew word referenced can mean ā€œboyā€ in some contexts. That is what we find in Jeremiah 20:15: ā€œCursed be the man who brought my father the news, who made him very glad, saying, ā€˜A child is born to youā€”a son!ā€™ā€ The context of that verse makes it clear that the Hebrew word is not speaking of a man but a male child.

The context of Leviticus 20 makes it clear that there is a contrast with ā€œwoman.ā€ ā€œIf a man lies with a man as one lies with a woman, both of them have done what is detestable.ā€ God designed sexual relations to take place between a man and a woman in marriage. Leviticus 20:13 condemns the practice of a man having sexual relations with another man as he would with a woman (in marriage).

People who support same-sex activity and same-sex marriage look for the Bible to differentiate between abusive same-sex relationships and consenting same-sex relationships: condemning the former but approving the latter. The Bible makes no distinction like that; it forbids and condemns all sexual relations that take place between men only and between women only.

While Leviticus 20:13 (and Leviticus 18:22) were part of the Mosaic code that governed Old Testament Israel, we find the same condemnation of same-sex activity in Romans 1:24-32 and 1 Corinthians 6:9-10.

With that last passage in mind, it is important to note that it is not particular sins that keep people out of the kingdom of God; it is impenitence and unbelief. God wants all to come to repentance and believe in him to enjoy salvation (1 Timothy 2:4; 2 Peter 3:9).