Help for son

Our son is totally messed up since leaving the military four years ago. The VA has done everything they possibly can to help him. He has an alcohol and drug problem and mental health issues. As of this last week, he is in jail on felony charges. We are at a loss of how to reach him. He seems so lost! I have tried to direct him back to his faith, but I am never sure if he is really listening. How can we help him?

I am sorry to hear about your son’s condition. His situation calls for resources that this forum cannot provide. But I can recommend resources for you.

First and foremost would be your pastor and/or your son’s pastor. The local pastor is in a position to provide spiritual care for your son.

Beyond that, it would be good for you to know about the counseling that is available through Christian Family Solutions, an agency within WELS. They offer face-to-face counseling in select locations and video counseling through an internet connection. This link will give you more information about their services.

You and your son might also benefit from the resources of the Lutheran Military Support Group, an organization within WELS and the Evangelical Lutheran Synod. This link will take you to their web site.

Also, depending on where your son is jailed, there may be a WELS chaplain nearby who could visit him. Your pastor would have information about that.

Your son needs God speaking to him through his word. Find out if your son can have access to a Bible. Encourage him to read it. Don’t discount the power of prayer (James 5:16). Keep presenting to God the petitions that concern your son. I will remember him in prayer as well. God bless you.